I can't find the post upthread but it said the wokebro said the person MIGHT be s transwoman.
If that is what was said, then it means he thought they might not be a transwoman.
Which means that he felt it was very important that the women and girls give the benefit of the doubt to a naked man sitting in a spa area with naked women and girls around the place.
We're always told to be polite, be nice, give the benefit of the doubt when alarms are ringing.
You see it on here from women (fgs) all the time.
OP: Man did creepy thing X
Loads of posters: Are you sure you didn't misinterpret him? You sound like you're over-reacting. Why were you rude he only wanted a chat! He's probably lonely/ depressed/ has some kind of additional needs/ socially inept etc etc.
Women have said though all this, it opens the door to all and sundry pervy men and men who enjoy upsetting/ intimidating /angering women
Answer was no no.
A man wouldn't pretend to be trans just got that! (Getting into an area with loads of naked women and girls- really??!!)
You can tell who is genuine and who isn't.
How?
Etc etc
So this completely obvious thing that was going to happen, happened (and a woman was brave enough to be unapologetic and didn't back down). And it was filmed.
The staff weren't interested.
The female customers had left and were hanging around in bathrobes etc (I doubt they got their money back!).
A woman paying to go in asked for her money back.
The staff weren't interested.
I'm guessing not getting involved in it was their main aim.
The men didn't go all Neanderthal and rush in and remove him/ beat him up. None of them looked like they were thinking about it.
None of them said hold on that's not right and tried to talk to the staff or agree it was wrong or anything.
One man decides to come and tell the woman, and if course all the other women and men heard. That it was ok for him to be there because he MIGHT be transgender.
I mean they have a mixed area FFS. The staff wouldn't even get someone to have s word and suggest that. For fear of being sued I assume.
There were girls of various ages in there FGS.
Watching it, it was EXACTLY the dynamics that women and girls navigate all the time.
Wokebro would rather give the person in the women's naked spa the benefit of the doubt, and was happy to risk the safety and certainly ruin the comfort of s load of women and girls. Essentially so he could feel like he'd educated some out of date/ transphobic women. And he was willing to risk other people- women and girls to feel good about that.
Urgh. And. Same old same old.