[quote EndoplasmicReticulum]Saw this linked to from Facebook, report from Dazed Digital. Shows one of the signs according to writer of the piece their "personal favourite" was the heart shaped one.
www.dazeddigital.com/life-culture/article/53337/1/see-how-london-turned-it-out-for-a-joyful-trans-pride-march[/quote]
I read it.
Two things jumped out.
- '“Being a trans+ person and visibly gender non-conforming, the streets can feel very unsafe,” says Eddie. “It’s a feeling I have unfortunately become very accustomed to. Little things like crossing the road to avoid dangerous situations, shouts, stares, and (micro) agressions are so normal in my life that I don’t even really notice them anymore. So it was a humbling, beautiful experience to be surrounded by thousands of trans+ people, and to feel so seen and safe – each one of us protecting and validating the other, transferring the strength needed to be ourselves in a cis society where our very existance is up for debate.”'
This drives me mad. The feeling unsafe when out and about, the defensive behaviour, the stares, harrassment etc.
Well. That's what women and girls get all the time. The tone deaf nature of things like that quote really grinds my gears.
And the fact that people who are GNC but don't identify as trans, and people who are seen as different. Get this as well.
And the fact the majority of it comes from men.
No awareness or empathy or tact...
And then yeah it was brilliant being with people like me, feeling safe and welcome etc...
???
But women and girls, who get loads of shit from men, are not allowed to have spaces just for us. We have to let others in on their say so. It's bigoted to want to have anything just for women up to and including mixed changing, support groups, book clubs, you name it.
How can people like this who I expect is perfectly nice, have such a massive blind spot?