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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Lesbian Visibility Week

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Shizuku · 27/04/2021 11:40

Shout out to my fellow lesbians on this important week!

I will be wearing my lesbian pride badge right next to my trans pride badge for the whole week in all public spaces.

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HamsterV2 · 30/04/2021 08:47

Helleofabore - Shizuku could also tell us exactly what the trans activists are doing to change this abusive culture that is continuing to build?

Ooh ooh ooh I know this one! Excitedly puts hand in the air

I'll let Shizuku answer this one though because I'm the "wrong kind of trans"...

NecessaryScene1 · 30/04/2021 08:48

Hey, HamsterV2, you'll be pleased to know that MNHQ removed my bollocks.

blackwhiteandstripey · 30/04/2021 08:50

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Helleofabore · 30/04/2021 08:51

@NecessaryScene1

Hey, HamsterV2, you'll be pleased to know that MNHQ removed my bollocks.
Any anesthesia with that? Is their follow up plan good value do you reckon?
blackwhiteandstripey · 30/04/2021 08:51

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HamsterV2 · 30/04/2021 08:53

NecessaryScene1 - Hey, HamsterV2, you'll be pleased to know that MNHQ removed my bollocks.

MNHQ removed mine too. No wait, THEY didn't, that was elsewhere. This was the second set I was given.

I am clearly careless with them. That's 2 sets I've lost now.

HecatesCatsInFancyHats · 30/04/2021 08:54

@TinselAngel

Someone's life isn't a debate. Again, apart from trans widows apparently.
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AdHominemNonSequitur · 30/04/2021 08:55

'Someone's life isn't a debate.'

Of course it is when it impacts other people. We debate people's lives all the time. Your internal sense of self is not sacred and doesn't overide other peoples needs.

NecessaryScene1 · 30/04/2021 08:56

Does that affect how you identify now NecessaryScene1?

Wëll, Ï'vë älwäÿs bëën vërÿ pëdäntïc äböüt dïäcrïtïcs, büt nöw fïnd mÿsëlf cömpëllëd tö fït spärë önës.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 30/04/2021 08:58

So long as you've had them removed, this can be your new gender, Necessary. Note how it is spelt without anything on the o.

lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Schrodigender

Lesbian Visibility Week
NecessaryScene1 · 30/04/2021 08:59

We debate people's lives all the time.

Even that's hyperbole. We actually debate their rights and needs.

NecessaryScene1 · 30/04/2021 09:00

Note how it is spelt without anything on the o.

Angry Triggered. Angry

waterlego · 30/04/2021 09:03

The idea that ‘female’ is a ‘gender identity’ is absurd. Where does that leave all the other mammals? How will a vet know what to write on the form when they register your dog or cat? Male or female? No idea, let’s ask the creature how they see themselves.

My cat had his bollocks AND penis removed (urinary blockage issues, poor bastard). If I asked the vet if my cat is now female, I suspect he’d think I was really dim.

As for @ASugarr’s discomfort with the term ‘trans widows’, I wonder if they are similarly affronted by ‘golf widows’ which is a term that’s been around for decades. @ASugarr- do you spend time trying to shut down golf widow groups?

NecessaryScene1 · 30/04/2021 09:05

The idea that ‘female’ is a ‘gender identity’ is absurd.

Well, it sort of can be, as an auxiliary meaning. It's a connector type, for example. So these "gender identities" whatever they are can include "female" as a type within that system, with whatever meaning they want.

The problem is the attempt to deny the primary meaning.

SunsetBeetch · 30/04/2021 09:10

@Iluvfriends

ASugarr.........................................................No because you were all saying earlier that you can't be a trans woman and be a lesbian so what difference does it make what genitals she has? She has a wife, she is a woman, therefore she is a lesbian.

Of course it matters what genitals she has. Lesbians do not and never have had a penis. You cant swap a penis for a uterus and ovaries .........100% fact.

Both Asugarr and Shizuku have confirmed that they believe lesbian sex can involve penises (earlier in the thread).
Sophoclesthefox · 30/04/2021 09:12

YY, blackwhite, nicely put.

Helleofabore · 30/04/2021 09:15

@HamsterV2

Helleofabore - Shizuku could also tell us exactly what the trans activists are doing to change this abusive culture that is continuing to build?

Ooh ooh ooh I know this one! Excitedly puts hand in the air

I'll let Shizuku answer this one though because I'm the "wrong kind of trans"...

Hamster, I would of course welcome your answer because you too are a trans activist. You actively work towards making the world better for trans people, don't you? I never assume that trans activists all campaign for changes to their rights that conflict those of women and children.

So, if you want to answer, please do. Any clarity will be good at this point. We have had some very enlightening posts that have surprised us all on this thread...

However, it does not take the question away from Shizuku or ASugarr either.

Anovaneway · 30/04/2021 09:17

The idea that ‘female’ is a ‘gender identity’ is absurd. Where does that leave all the other mammals? How will a vet know what to write on the form when they register your dog or cat? Male or female? No idea, let’s ask the creature how they see themselves.

We don’t have transsexual pets. No one needs to even ask that question really.

If someone born with a male body is more mentally well and functional transitioning to as close as physically/ hormonally possible to female and sees themselves as a woman then they have a female gender identity.

The GRA aligns man with male, and woman with female. So if you identify as a man, you have a male gender identity. I don’t think that’s absurd.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 30/04/2021 09:21

Male is a sex term. Human sex is immutable. Male is the sex (class) that can produce sperm, as opposed to sex that can produce ova. The GRA is a legal fiction. If I break the windows of Tesco, legally a person in company law, I have committed criminal damage, not ABH.

R0wantrees · 30/04/2021 09:22

"Don't you see that the whole aim of Newspeak is to narrow the range of thought? In the end we shall make thought-crime literally impossible, because there will be no words in which to express it. Every concept that can ever be needed will be expressed by eactly one word, with its meaning rigidly defined and all its subsidiary meanings rubbed out and forgotten. . . . The process will still be continuing long after you and I are dead. Every year fewer and fewer words, and the range of consciousness always a little smaller. Even now, of course, there's no reason or excuse for commiting thought-crime. It's merely a question of self-discipline, reality-control. But in the end there won't be any need even for that. . . . Has it ever occcured to you, Winston, that by the year 2050, at the very latest, not a single human being will be alive who could understand such a conversation as we are having now?" George Orwell

waterlego · 30/04/2021 09:22

Personally I do find it absurd because I view ‘male’ and ‘female’ as factual descriptors of a mammal’s reproductive set-up. This is not something anyone can identify in or out of.

How can male or female be a ‘gender’ identity? Biological sex is not gender, which is why I used the example of other mammals. They are male or female, just as humans are.

sanluca · 30/04/2021 09:23

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^*ASugarr
She is a woman, she has a wife and is a lesbian. That's all you need to know.

Those are certainly claims, but do you truly expect others to accept those claims? What do they mean?^"
That is who she is. No question about it.*

They can call themselves anything they want, they do not have the protected characteristic of being same sex attracted or that of the female sex, they only have the characteristic of gender reassignment. That is the point we are making.

sanluca · 30/04/2021 09:23

Gaaahhh bold faill. First bit is from Asugarr

ConfusedAdultFemale · 30/04/2021 09:26

Shout out to the biologically female lesbians. You do you, you amazing women Flowers

Ereshkigalangcleg · 30/04/2021 09:26

I mean, it's all absurd IMO, but the idea of "identifying" as a member of a clearly defined mammalian sex you don't belong to, and don't meet any of the criteria for is particularly so.

But then other people identify as wolves and stuff so 🤷‍♀️