I started as a trans ally and would have described myself as an intersectional feminist, back until about 2014 or so. I was happy to include transwomen in my feminism, I didn’t see any issue with that. I’ve never voted further to the right of the Lib Dems. Your basic issue gentle lefty with a penchant for the underdog and an interest in social justice etc.
Until I saw Caitlin Jenner pick up Woman of the Year award, and be described as “always having been a woman”, and being the sports fan that I am, I know that there was not then and is not now a women’s decathlon event. I started to read, to discuss, to question, to think, to interrogate, to test my assumptions.
It all fell apart when I pulled that first thread.
I fundamentally, completely changed my stance, and I started to,centre women again. I looked for the real underdogs: the gender non conforming children being treated with untested medications of questionable value. The teenage girls fleeing womanhood and getting their breasts and wombs removed because they’re on the ASD spectrum, or they’ve been abused, or they just don’t see themselves in this current pornified incarnation of being a woman. The trans widows whose lives have been blown up but who can’t mention it in polite society because their painful stories are inconvenient to the narrative. The sportswomen losing scholarships and medals and glory. The women in prison at risk of being sexually assaulted while the state falls asleep at the wheel.
Please, if you can persuade me back to my state of innocence and explain how all of this doesn’t happen and doesn’t matter, will you do just that, because it’s fucking horrible. Persuade me- I was there before, so if you’re right, then it should be possible to get me back there using the evidence you have.