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Bunburying and wassailing into winter - thread 7

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CaraDuneRedux · 02/12/2020 11:41

Time for a new thread. Please can someone c&p the header post? (Am on phone.)

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Mumofgirlswholiketoplaywithmud · 29/01/2021 13:58

@Wrongsideofhistorymyarse

The antenatal group stating that men get pregnant too.
I'm getting confused about the rules of this new doctrine. Ben Cohen just targeted the LGB alliance on twitter for not being pro commercial surrogacy, which he implied was against male couples... Because (he implies) men can't get pregnant?!

My head is going to explode trying the mental gymnastics

Mumofgirlswholiketoplaywithmud · 29/01/2021 14:04

The best response was the person who said "if every women in the world identified as a man, would you still find a way to exploit their wombs?"

Bunburying and wassailing into winter - thread 7
Wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 29/01/2021 14:04

Mumofgirls none of this is logical.

Datun · 29/01/2021 14:08

@Wrongsideofhistorymyarse

Mumofgirls none of this is logical.
No, but it is tedious and frustrating how they can deny sex when it comes to women's rights, and then uphold it when it comes to men's.
DeaconBoo · 29/01/2021 14:36

I've noticed that typo "a women" crop up again recently. I'm leaning towards coincidence but still... it does seem to happen with certain types of poster?

Angryresister · 29/01/2021 20:22

Sxheavy moderation going on already...is it a Friday thing?

midgedude · 29/01/2021 22:42

Whisky please
Large enough to knock me out
Hangover be damned

ArabellaScott · 29/01/2021 23:31

[Pours midge a bucketful] want a chaser? Cigarettes? Ketamine?

MoleSmokes · 30/01/2021 02:19

@midgedude

Whisky please Large enough to knock me out Hangover be damned
FFS I'm joining you and I hope I pass out before I give in to that Part 3 AIBU.

I am still a lurker at heart and read through threads from start to finish.

I also see a huge value in bringing matters to wider attention.

But I am asking myself: at this particular time, with so many consultations near deadline, am I allowing myself to be distracted from doing something that would have more bang for the buck?

(As I wrote that I wondered if it had some sleazy connotation to be avoided but I checked and it doesn't. Thank heavens because I always thought it was to do with fireworks. It's not, but it's not dodgy either.)

Datun · 30/01/2021 02:40

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midgedude · 30/01/2021 08:15

Wakes clutching head....thanks all

Although I am finding it interesting that these are in AIBU and a year ago would have gone " go back to the feminist board none of us care "

ChattyLion · 30/01/2021 08:19

Just posted on this thread seconds ago and looking back it’s now been zapped www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4150901-To-think-that-third-spaces-might-be-a-compromise-for-men-who-believe-they-are-women

We need to be able to talk about this stuff!!!

ChattyLion · 30/01/2021 08:20

So I’ll have a Bloody Mary please since it’s 8am.

Winesalot · 30/01/2021 08:26

Whoa Chatty!!

Obviously we cannot have too many escapees. Otherwise it might seem like, you know, not only regulars on this part of the forum are concerned. I mean, that would destroy the argument that we are the only people on MN, the country, the planet who cares about such a niche, major, all encompassing, issue.

It would totally show that argument like so many are pure bollocks!

midgedude · 30/01/2021 08:27

Inflammatory title
Use transwomen not men who believe

Mn have left the AIBU threads quite loose and will be getting flack

ChattyLion · 30/01/2021 08:29

Totally bloody agree with you there

wordsinourmouths · 30/01/2021 18:55

Oh I didn’t realise the above was inflammatory. But these matters are clearly worth talking about for women in AIBU too and there does seem to be an awful lot of inflammatory there to be sure. Should mn publish a list of expressions and words which we can’t use, rather than waiting till we wrong think /speak? I kind of thought more or less anything was acceptable in AIBU. Perhaps someone could reframe the wording and repost that thread.

wordsinourmouths · 30/01/2021 18:58

mole I would really like to believe that all our submissions eg to the various enquiries were considered...the fact that some don’t even get published makes me wonder if the buck is just being passed, without much bang at all. However we still need to do them, you are right.

wordsinourmouths · 30/01/2021 18:59

mole is there a part 3?!

Manderleyagain · 30/01/2021 22:51

Now I'm intrigued. What then is the origin of the phrase more bang for your buck?

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 30/01/2021 23:00

It was a catchy way to say that nuclear weapons are cheaper per enemy killed than soldiers are.

Variously attributed, some time during Dwight D. Eisenhower's presidency, 1953.

www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/more-bang-for-your-buck.html

MoleSmokes · 30/01/2021 23:14

Datun - thank you! 😘

Wordsinourmouths - no - just a two-parter because I exceeded the character count when I tried to put it all in one post Smile

CaraDuneRedux · 31/01/2021 11:19

And another one gone.

Apparently discussion of YouTubers making offensive and untrue claims about women's health issues is not allowed.

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Winesalot · 31/01/2021 11:28

We still have the one. If we keep it focused on just what was wrong with the statement , it might stand.

Everytime I read it, I hear Magdalen in my head saying ‘fuck of you **er’.

MaudTheInvincible · 31/01/2021 11:53

@CaraDuneRedux

And another one gone.

Apparently discussion of YouTubers making offensive and untrue claims about women's health issues is not allowed.

Shock It's a shame that's gone. It was very enlightening to read the interview with said youtuber that was linked on there. Their statement all started to make sense after reading that.

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