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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Music by women for 14 year old niece?

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PossiblyPattio · 09/10/2020 11:29

She often visits and i'd like to introduce her to some empowering female role models, she loves music so i'd like to find some for her to listen to, women who go against patriarchal standards and can inspire her.
I'm thinking Patti Smith (BIIGGG FAN Grin) but i'm not sure if it would be appropriate? I got into her at around 16 but a lot of her music is quite deep and heavy but I think she was, and is, a brilliant woman who certainly goes against standards!!
Would appreciate some requests, thank you!! Smile

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Trivium4all · 13/10/2020 09:58

[quote bluebluezoo]@Trivium4all

But wait, that's not STEM...

Which is odd now you say it as in my head music, especially composing/classical, is very mathematical. So women composers fall down a hole where it is seen, like maths, as a “male” field, yet like you say it’s arts rather than STEM, which is “female”, so there’s no support in the same way..

Back to the thread- more current is Lennon (and Maisie) Stella. With added advantage of Nashville box set to watch!![/quote]
@bluebluezoo, Well, music was one of the four mathematical disciplines comprising the Quadrivium of the medieval university curriculum, the others being arithmetic, geometry, and astronomy). I'm quite keen on them, and also the Trivium (grammar, rhetoric, and logic), the re-introduction of which I think would improve internet debates on various issues enormously!

But yes, what irritates me about the whole girls in STEM thing is that the way it's phrased continues to devalue the disciplines that are currently (not always historically) coded as "feminine". Surely, there must be a way to encourage girls with gifts in those areas to consider them, without simultaneously bashing, say, people in modern languages or history, teachers, and "ballerinas prancing around in tutus". Perhaps it fundamentally boils down to money. If something generates ££, it's coded "masculine", which is why "rock star" is masculine, and "classical orchestral flute player" is feminine (even though there are plenty of women in rock, and men playing classical flute). Does my head in.

Fimofriend · 13/10/2020 18:10

Chopin's older sister taught him to compose. Several of her own compositions have been recorded.

Ginkypig · 14/10/2020 01:58

Hey hey hey recent years, now!

Skunk anansie are back in a big way after having a break.
they are producing albums and regularly touring in Europe and the uk and are absolutely killing it live! The best gig I’ve ever been at was their Glasgow gig last year.

Skin is properly kicking the snot out of performers half her age (literally probably) both in physicality, creativity and voice!

Skin (solo) and skunk anansie
Pink
Avril lavigne
Alanis morrisette
Evenessence
Debbi harry
Annie Lennox
Gwen stafani from her no doubt years (not so much now imo)
Tina turner (her music but actually her life story and the choices she has made in the face of terrible life events!)
Cindi lauper
Heart!

Is that enough to get you started? If I really thought about it I could come up with more Blush

bluebluezoo · 14/10/2020 11:02

Is that enough to get you started? If I really thought about it I could come up with more

I think the last 10 pages of suggestions was probably more than enough to get o/p started!

Ginkypig · 14/10/2020 21:06

Yea ok blue do you feel better now you have admonished me?
Was there a conservative reason why or do you just like to put people in their place?

I obviously meant enough from me.

bluebluezoo · 14/10/2020 21:43

*Yea ok blue do you feel better now you have admonished me?
Was there a conservative reason why or do you just like to put people in their place?

I obviously meant enough from me*

No admonishment meant. I just thought it was funny that there was 10 pages of suggestions then someone came along and asked if that was enough to start with.

RuffleCrow · 14/10/2020 21:58

My 14 year old likes Carole King!

I'd add Joni Mitchell, Patti Smith, Florence and The Machine, Nina Simone, Annie Lennox, Sandy Denny, Alanis Morisette, The Bangles, This is the Kit, Tracy Chapman, Suzanne Vega, Taylor Swift, Beyonce ( both of whom i'm sure she'll already be familiar with!). People knock Adele, but I think her first album particularly would be pretty inspirational to today's 14 year old girls. Some Amy Winehouse isn't that appropriate, but lots is. Same with Hole/Courtney Love. And Ella Fitzgerald still sounds amazing - my 6 year old is a big fan!

slug · 14/10/2020 22:07

Joan Armatrading
Tracey Chapman
Liz Fraser
Kate Tempest

SirVixofVixHall · 15/10/2020 11:37

I was 14 in 1978 and I listened to lots of bands previously mentioned, but also an awful lot of much older music, and I still do. My dd is 15 and listens to music from many different decades, although she finds much contemporary stuff a bit tame and dull compared to the tail end of punk/new wave.
Good music is good music, there is nothing wrong with loving songs from another era.

moofolk · 19/10/2020 22:45

@bluebluezoo

Nobody’s said Avril Lavigne yet...
Avril Lavigne specialised in songs slagging off other girls.
Chameleon72 · 19/10/2020 23:11

Roisin Murphy - Irish roots, England based singer songwriter, she is pure genius, fabulous voice, a real game changer, she's just released a brand new album. I've had a girl crush on her since the 90s (Moloko). As a 14year old I would have adored her. instagram.com/roisinmurphyofficial?igshid=1i22p3bx0aqpn

Mominatrix · 19/10/2020 23:21

Beyoncé (surprised she has not been mentioned more), Stevie Nicks, Indigo Girls, Joni Mitchell, Billie Eilish, Annie Lennox,

AsTreesWalking · 20/10/2020 05:54

Joni Mitchell

FloralBunting · 20/10/2020 05:59

I see Ani Di Franco has been mentioned. Fan here.

DrGachet · 20/10/2020 07:40

Grimes (the artist not the genre)
079 Shake
FKA Twigs
Hana

I like Grimes especially - she does everything herself from album cover art to vocals to production.

DrGachet · 20/10/2020 07:41

070 Shake I mean

Z0rr0 · 20/10/2020 10:01

Morcheeba (often has strong female vocal)
The Staves
Beyonce
She Drew the Gun
Alicia Keys
Norah Jones
Sheryl Crow
Katy Perry
Lana del Rey

DrGachet · 20/10/2020 10:54

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