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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Nigella Lawson - another disappointment

677 replies

Kit19 · 30/08/2020 08:51

Any celebrity who thinks we should all just be kiiiiinddd

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RedtreesRedtrees · 31/08/2020 15:43


Quaagars do you think transmen will ever stand a chance of being selected to play for an all-male rugby team? Of winning the men's finals at Wimbledon? Of beating Usain Bolt's record?

Genuine question.”

Obviously not, but the focus here should be on amateur sport, not the 0.0001% represented by the sportsmen and women you highlight. Can they compete at the Wimbledon final? Almost certainly not. Can they compete at a local tennis club? Almost certainly yes.

SophocIestheFox · 31/08/2020 15:43

@EndoplasmicReticulum

If the cake is a Nigella recipe this thread might have got back on track again.
Sadly no. And even sadder to report that I must have added too much baking powder because the fucking thing had oozed out of tin like molten lava 🤣 I am not a domestic goddess (swidt??)
ItsLateHumpty · 31/08/2020 15:46

Obviously not, but the focus here should be on amateur sport...

And girls loose scholarships which means they loose out on further education which limits them for life, and all because a male wants a medal, or the scholarship or both and can’t hack it in the male team, so just IDs as transgender.

Yay!

yourhairiswinterfire · 31/08/2020 15:48

I have some avocados to hand. I could knock up some Nigella special avocado on toast to keep us all on track 😊 Taking one for the team, I hate the things.

ItsLateHumpty · 31/08/2020 15:48

oozed out of tin like molten lava

I made rock cakes once that came out like a tray bake with stab wounds (jammy bits). Made a nice crumble though... maybe your cake can be repurposed?

Or just moosh it together and eat over the sink?!

ItsLateHumpty · 31/08/2020 15:51

Ha! opps loose = lose in my earlier post 🤦‍♀️

Autocucumber hates me

I’d like some avo on toast with feta and balsamic please

ItsLateHumpty · 31/08/2020 15:55

Obviously not, but the focus here should be on amateur sport...

Oh and to add, being amateur doesn’t change the male to female physical advantages and size differences, so would still make contact sport for female bodies against male bodies dangerous, and in worse case life changing injuries can occur.

I am sure no one with a real sense of sportsmanlike behavior would want to be responsible for the latter.

SophocIestheFox · 31/08/2020 16:00

Exactly, humpty. Amateur or otherwise, male bodies can’t safely be accommodated in women’s rugby or any other contact sport, and they can’t fairly be accommodated in any sex segregated sport. I’ve only ever competed in my sports as an amateur, so why does my right to access fair sport on a level playing field matter less than a transwoman’s?

yourhairiswinterfire · 31/08/2020 16:00

I’d like some avo on toast with feta and balsamic please

Feta and Balsamic?! I aint that posh. What do you think this is, your mother's yacht?

Yer'll get what you're given and be grateful for it.

Grin
SophocIestheFox · 31/08/2020 16:02

they can’t fairly be accommodated in any sex segregated sport should read “ they can’t fairly be accommodated in the women’s division of any sexy segregated sport”, before that gets picked apart as saying that trans people can’t compete in any sport 🙄

SophocIestheFox · 31/08/2020 16:03

Fucking hell autocorrect, sex segregated sport, not sexy! Let’s not make this harder 😂

Winesalot · 31/08/2020 16:04

You could make those avocados into chocolate cake maybe. If you don’t like them. Mind you, I am not sure I would eat that either. Avocados are the devil’s work in my kitchen.

ItsLateHumpty · 31/08/2020 16:09

Avocados are the devil’s work in my kitchen.

Desiccated coconut is the devils dandruff

winterfire sheesh - how’s my chances of a poached egg with the smashed avo on toast. You must have that at least 🙄😜

KinkyFink · 31/08/2020 16:12

I'm female and I compete at amateur level in mixed martial arts. I spar against males, but every one of those males, even the complete beginners, could seriously injure me - in fact it's more likely at amateur level because they will use strength over technique.

We already have so few women in the sport because we have nobody to train with (I have 2 other females who aren't even in my weight class - oh and weight classes! What are they for eh? To discriminate against the overweight? Or because safety and fairness?) there's no way I'm getting in the cage with someone who was born male, because I don't want to be paralysed or brain damaged, which can happen at any level.

Having sparred with teenaged boys who haven't even completed puberty yet I can tell you that testosterone is a terrifyingly powerful indicator of how much damage I will sustain.

yourhairiswinterfire · 31/08/2020 16:13

winterfire sheesh - how’s my chances of a poached egg with the smashed avo on toast. You must have that at least

I mean, you're pushing your luck a little here, but being as you asked nicely with a playful emoji, I'll comply. Duck egg or chicken?

Butterer · 31/08/2020 16:14

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Winesalot · 31/08/2020 16:15

I am reading this thread while catching up with Ross Tucker’s tweets. There is so denial going on with both it feels a little surreal.

And in both it seems to come down to feelings.

Because a person can make decisions about medicalised transition in the light of their sports participation. Just like some sportspeople have to make hard decisions about their own treatments in regards to what is considered anticompetitive. Regardless of the level - social, amateur or elite.

If your choice of treatment prevents you from participating in a sport that you are passionate about, the choice of what you have done to your body as an adult has been yours.

There are mixed sex sports to go play or independent pursuits that can be done in mixed groups.

Winesalot · 31/08/2020 16:17

so much denial

Lamahaha · 31/08/2020 16:31

@Quaagars

Quaagers so do you tell transwomen they are being prejudice by refusing to share spaces with other males?

How would trans women be being prejudiced by going into male changing rooms and toilets? Confused

Quaagers, do you have reading comprehension difficulties? The question was about them being prejudiced by NOT going into male changing rooms. (Not the words "refusing to share" in the original quote.)

I know this was a few pages back but it's still only Monday.

ItsLateHumpty · 31/08/2020 16:35

Duck egg or chicken?

Ostrich!

Hahahahaha

Sorry for the eggscape Wine I’ll come back sensible tomorrow when I’ve slept.

Winesalot · 31/08/2020 16:39

Humpty

Just glad you did not suggest Emu eggs. .... I don’t think I could bother tracking one down and the mother emu is likely to be very angry. I could imagine one peck on my head and I’d be scrambled. Grin

Butterer · 31/08/2020 16:41

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Quaagars · 31/08/2020 16:42

Avocados are wrong

Shock

Now that's the most outrageous thing said yet
#TeamAvocado

Butterer · 31/08/2020 16:43

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Sexnotgender · 31/08/2020 16:52

Avocados are delicious. Love a halloumi avocado wrap. Maybe some jalapeños too.

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