We have been naive in the extreme
The really sad thing is that women have been accepting. And kind. And trusting. And generous. And keen to listen and to help.
And now, after several years of this, it becomes apparent how this is taken advantage of and how one way those values have been, by those born male. 'Identify as' appears to equate to 'but give no fucks for, and have no fellow feeling with'. It's a very sad reality, but it proves, all by itself, why females need female only provision, and it needs strong protections.
Because this is how males behave towards females given the chance, and how those males choose to identify makes no difference. There is no honour, there is no care, there is no reciprocation, there's a fuckton of taking advantage, dominating, subordinating and entitlement.