I don't call myself a feminist anymore because I don't think I fit in properly and I feel a bit uncomfortable with it, but I support women and I would say my main focus is for working class and poorer women of all skin colours and nationalitys.
Metoo was a big movement for women and I've been raped, abused and harrassed but didn't feel like it was for me. I feel like main feminism is pretty middle to upper class and is mostly white. I don't think that means they look down on working class or are racist, though some do and are, it's just how it is because it's easier for them to have a louder voice. I think many feminist women try to use their voice to help those who need it, but they are coloured by their own experience as we all are. I try to financially support smaller initiatives and movements that are more close to my beliefs and to support them by petitions and retweets etc. The next time I can afford to donate it will be to Sistah Space, the time before it was Transgender Trend. I think long and hard before I choose someone to donate to because I can't afford much. With BLM I think they have achieved some good things like a greater awareness of police brutality to black men which will hopefully lead to positive changes in that. Also I didn't know about the confederate flag before BLM and now it's finally being removed that seems like a good change to me. I support the campaign for justice for Breonna Taylor and think BLM have really helped bring her story to light. I haven't donated to BLM because I don't agree with much of what I read on their website, but I very, very much believe black lives matter and I hope one day that will go without saying.
Where I live now is a mainly white area and mainly more middle class, and my face to face experience with BLM here has not been positive as it was taken over by one (she was white) woman who has always lived here, is from a wealthy family and who has read some books as she kept telling us. She was patronising and every concern or question from the mainly older local community, who genuinely mostly seemed to want to support the cause and who seemed horrified by some of the experiences of black people that they'd heard about, was labelled white supremacy and she ranted about them on twitter in a very nasty way and said how tired she was of fighting this battled and that got her a lot of sympathy. I don't take her as representing the entire BLM movement at all but she is the type of "white feminist" that I personally dislike because she refused to see further than her own nose and she talked over everyone including even black people who she was supposedly fighting for. She was eventually shut down by a man (who was mixed race) and who helped to bring everyone together to see that most of them were arguing for the same things, and I don't think she liked that but it helped bring people back on focus. I think in my old area which is working class and the majority of the population is from a BAME background, with a much higher proportion of black people than where I am now, my experience would have been a lot different.
Overall, I think most people, including most feminists, are just trying their best. And they have their blind spots but I think that's human nature. I have seen the triggernometry interview shared above and follow Ayishat on twitter and think she is lovely. I loved her interview most of all because it reminded me that behind every angry rant I see online there is a person and most of us are trying to do what we think is right, even if we disagree on what that is. I can be too quick to judge things as illogical and I'm trying to teach myself to step back for a moment and think about what's in a person's heart because I react.