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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

If Daniel and Rupert were honest

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MrsKingfisher · 14/06/2020 14:47

Would they themselves have an intimate relationship with a trans woman? I mean because as far as they are concerned they are who they say they are trans woman ARE women.

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slipperywhensparticus · 14/06/2020 14:48

I'm guessing Daniel might?

Seriously I have no clue 🤷‍♀️

CountessFrog · 14/06/2020 14:49

Hasn’t anyone asked them?

Tootletum · 14/06/2020 14:50

Good question.

Fairenuff · 14/06/2020 14:50

I guess their answer would be they would have sex with any person that they were attracted to provided that person also consented.

Swerve.

wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 14/06/2020 14:52

Woke in the streets, TERF in the sheets. Probably.

NellMangel · 14/06/2020 14:54

It doesn't all boil down to who you find fuckable though?

I completely agree with JK Rowling btw. I just dont like the ultimate test of being a woman being how palatable you are from a man's pov.

PeaceCheese · 14/06/2020 14:58

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Doyoumind · 14/06/2020 15:03

I think the point is that if they are straight (I know R is but who knows with D) then would they like to have sex with someone with a penis, given that the majority retain their genitalia? If they are straight, the honesty answer is more than likely no.

Totally agree with the swerve about it being about the personality/person etc though.

ShinyFootball · 14/06/2020 15:07

The point is that straight men know exactly who is male and who is female. As do gay men.

But men seem to be able to go around without being barraged about who they would and wouldn't sleep with, unlike women, especially lesbians.

I don't think it's a good idea to ask this question of individuals though. Although LOJ saying lesbians should get with the D and then recoiling in disgust at the idea he have sex with someone with a vagina was pretty funny!

dudsville · 14/06/2020 15:12

I don't think it's a useful question. Some people will, and that's good. What i want to know of Daniel is whether he will denounce the use of threats of physical violence asunder active bullying or people who calmly hils a different view to him. This would be so valuable.

Bluebooby · 14/06/2020 15:13

I think they would donate every penny they made from J K Rowling's work so they could preach with a clear conscience.

DisobedientHamster · 14/06/2020 15:19

No condemnation of the violent threats to JK or vile abuse she's suffered, great lesson for Rupert to show his daughter, 'Shut up, females, or else this is what you get!'

Al1Langdownthecleghole · 14/06/2020 15:23

It’s not about whether they support Transwomen. It’s about whether they believe wholeheartedly in the mantra they are parroting for woke points.

Do they honestly believe Transwomen are women?

BuzzShitbagBobbly · 14/06/2020 15:24

I think they'd be like that twit who said "women in every aspect, except for relationship purposes"

I cannot imagine any of them happily partaking in lady dick or mangina either.

happinessischocolate · 14/06/2020 15:35

I guess their answer would be they would have sex with any person that they were attracted to provided that person also consented.

So maybe the question should be :

If you found out the woman you were on a date with was trans, would you continue to date them, and want to have sex with them?

WhereYouLeftIt · 14/06/2020 15:40

I think it is a useful question. It identifies how big a hypocrite they are (or are not).

If Daniel and Rupert were honest
NiceLegsShameAboutTheFace · 14/06/2020 15:41

Would they fuck!!!!

MrsKingfisher · 14/06/2020 15:43

*It’s not about whether they support Transwomen. It’s about whether they believe wholeheartedly in the mantra they are parroting for woke points.

Do they honestly believe Transwomen are women?*

This exactly

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NiceLegsShameAboutTheFace · 14/06/2020 15:44

I wouldn't have a relationship with a transman because ...... I don't believe them to be male and I'm a woman who's opposite sex attracted!

By the same logic, I don't believe that transwomen are women. They're male and .... I could potentially be attracted there Blush

TooOldForSims · 14/06/2020 15:49

Someone needs to ask them this.

And someone needs to ask Rupert Grint whether he'd seriously be okay with his daughter sharing a changing room with Karen White.

TooOldForSims · 14/06/2020 15:52

Does it matter whether they would be with a trans person sexually though?

If they really do believe that transwomen are women, then yes it does matter.

RainbowRoadRose · 14/06/2020 15:56

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TooOldForSims · 14/06/2020 16:01

@RainbowRoadRose

I am attracted to men, but there's only the small minority of men that I actually find attractive. Does that mean that men who I don't find attractive (i.e: whose facial features I don't find handsome) aren't men?

To me at least, it doesn't. If a man I didn't find sexually attractive was in some sort of trouble where I could help (i.e: they collapsed on the pavement in front of me because they were choking or having a heart attack) I would help them, because I believe that to be the right thing to do.

Perhaps those actors support and care about transwomen because they feel that that's the right thing to do, and wholeheartedly believe transwomen to be women, regardless of any sexual feelings they may or may not have towards them.

But if transwomen are women then they would at least be open to the idea of having sex with one.

So if Daniel went on a date and everything was going well but then found out halfway through she was actually a transwoman and had a penis then would he still wish to continue the date? Or would he be put off?

fuckinghellthisshit · 14/06/2020 16:06

Eddie whatshisname is the worst. He played a TW in a film. Yet he says TWAW. So why did he, a man, play a TW. How is that not transphobic when saying that someone who has periods is a woman is?! It is truly the dawn of the braindead on twitter isn't it?

Gncq · 14/06/2020 16:17

@Doyoumind

I think the point is that if they are straight (I know R is but who knows with D) then would they like to have sex with someone with a penis, given that the majority retain their genitalia? If they are straight, the honesty answer is more than likely no.

Totally agree with the swerve about it being about the personality/person etc though.

The point is, that's it's very hypocritical to say "TWAW" but still exclude them from your dating pool because they're obviously not women, and then berate women for excluding transwoman from women's spaces.

ALL heterosexual men know TWANW when it comes to dating. They then expect women to say TWAW when it comes to women's spaces, which doesn't affect men in the slightest.

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