CloudyVanilla
It seems to me that although you agree we need single sex spaces, you also say you are detecting a less than enthusiastic attitude towards trans people in general?
Perhaps this will give you some context.
First of all, this is not about individuals. You cannot base laws, cultural protocols, statistics and legislative processes on individual people.
Secondly, the women here aren't strangers to transgenderism. Many have trans children, trans parents and trans husbands. And we also have trans people posting.
So the subject has, necessarily, been analysed to death.
Transgender ideology relies on sexism. Which is one of the problems. So it will always be criticised on that basis. Particularly by feminists.
Furthermore, there is a distinct difference between what people would call transsexuals and transwomen. Transsexuals are mostly gay males who struggle with the masculinity society expects from them.
The new influx of transwomen would appear to be those who are autogynephiles, which is a fetish where the person is aroused at the thought of themselves as a woman. Stonewall absolutely include them under the term transgender.
This obviously gets criticised a lot, because validating the person is being an unwitting participant in their fetish.
This cohort remain attracted to women, and 90% keep their genitalia.
As far as I know, there haven't been any studies to determine numbers, but the aggression is coming from this second cohort. And they appear to be the majority. They are the ones demanding access to everything to do with women, as it is validating.
Women who object are routinely threatened, doxed, have had every single meeting they've arranged targeted. The House of Commons claimed they'd never heard anything like it when a meeting scheduled to be held there was targeted. Millwall football club pulled out as a venue, despite their slogan being everybody hates us and we don't care. Credible bomb threats were investigated by police in Hastings. A 60 year woman was hit by a transactivist who has been subsequently convicted of battery.
You've seen the threats directed at J. K. Rowling. This doesn't stop.
People have been arrested for stating facts and even for 'thinking the wrong things'.
If you know some decent transwomen, who you suspect are same-sex attracted, then no doubt they are what we would call transsexuals. Just wanting to get on with it under the radar. Unfortunately they have now been subsumed. Something which many of them predicted would happen, as stonewall widened the umbrella of what it meant to be trans.
Transgender is not just one thing.
So yes, single sex spaces must be preserved, because every predator in the country, whether trans or not, has now seen the loophole. Men commit 98% of all sex crimes. A pattern of behaviour which does not change however you identify.