FGS. How dare they go through a list of women who aren’t bleeding as if JKR needs it explaining to her that ‘Only half the female population is of reproductive age so half do not menstruate’ HOLD THE FUCKING FRONT PAGE!!
What a totally patronising and insulting letter. I can’t imagine what JKR will think reading that (I can imagine)
And yeah JKR is going to learn so much reading the output of Munroe Bergdorf, Jamie Windust and Juno Dawson - like they know fuck all about bleeding through your protection, staining bedsheets and seats and lying on your bed doubled up with period cramps. Five out of the 7 people JKR was advised to listen to were born with penises. I despair. I utterly despair.
I get it must be awkward to have a period when you are trying to live as a man. It must be an awful ‘bubble bursting’ event. And if you’re non-binary, again it’s a monthly reminder that no matter how hard you wish not to be a woman, or what document gets administratively altered, or how big a beard or six-pack you’ve cultivated, there is a REALITY to your body and condition of birth that can’t be escaped (without a full hysterectomy)
But that’s something you just need to learn to cope with surely. You’ve been brave enough to do this huge physical and societal transition - get your family to collectively disappear the person they brought into the world, get society to dismiss the evidence of the sex they may see before them - then why not just put up with the minor detail that a product designed to absorb the blood that is released by a uterus every month because it’s ovary has released an egg that did not get fertilised by a sperm, has been designed, funnily enough, for use by WOMEN. It might be in an aisle in a supermarket called ‘feminine products’.
Why not do that? Why not do that instead of getting the world to dismiss a fundamental, biological truth and rewrite the definition of Woman?
Can people not see the utter insulting, absurdity of it?