Women with strong opinions disagreeing strongly on some things despite agreeing on some other things is hardly surprising, is it?
I think this is very true. I'm on Twitter in my RL, but have been doxxed etc because of it. And I'm not a famous feminist at all, just a run of the mill academic feminist.
I think there's a longer and broader narrative here, which is that women are generally socialised to "be kind" and we are expeted to get on with each other.
Whereas men are expected to compete.
But that's OK for them because the field [of public discourse in this case] is theirs.
Whereas the field is not ours. And there is a really persuasive theory about this - that because the field is not ours, then there's generally only room for one woman (or speaking symbolically, one female position in the field).
So the competition is forced - by patriarchal ideological structures - to be between women, for that one spot, rather than just between human beings, regardless of sex.
And I know I've gone all theoretical, but you could look at practical examples - the aim of getting women on committees or Boards of Directors. Men appoint one woman, and they feel their job is done.
It's tricky - I saw the end of the spat play out on Twitter but I missed the original Jamila (who she?) tweet.
Part of me wanted to say "Please comrades, keep all our internecine battles private. We need to show a united front against the real enemy"
But that's my feminine socialisation, innit?