(I've started and deleted posts like this over the past couple of days but rather than do that again I'm just going to leave this as a ramble because while I haven't figured out all my thoughts yet, maybe someone else is feeling similar to me.)
I feel there's a discussion to be had regarding class divide in (big F) Feminism but ironically I don't feel articulate enough to start it, particularly on MN which skews middle-class.
I suppose it's similar to why I drifted to radical feminism rather than liberal - because the idea of 'free choice' seems idealistic and a bit Common People. Some people have more choices than others.
I suppose what I'm trying to say is that I don't expect anyone to share my opinion on everything, all the time, and that we can only bring our own experiences to the table. Women with strong opinions disagreeing strongly on some things despite agreeing on some other things is hardly surprising, is it? I'm sure we've all spent time on AIBU!