What on earth was all this stuff about 'where shall we put transwomen, they've got to go somwhere, where will they socialise?' about?
They can socialise in the general population at large as we all do. They can socialise in groups where women welcome transwomen and transmen. They can go to church, join political parties, attend parties where they've received an invitation, go to the theatre, join a walking group, whatever. They just don't get to socialise or be involved in a relatively small number of women-only or lesbian-only groups and organisations. And that's the thing they really seem to want, isn't it? It doesn't matter if they can have free access to 80% of the social groups and activities women go to, it's the 20% they are denied that they really, really, want to get into. What does that tell us?