a respectable, contributing citizen, the opportunity to go about my day to day business
No one is stopping you going about your daily business. Just putting boundaries on where you can conduct your business, like every other aspect of society that everyone has to abide by. How can we tell the difference between you and Dolatowski? We don’t all have Butler’s soul-gazing superpowers you know.
You may think yourself respectable but you are not respectful.
My daughters do not want to get changed in the presence of a male, regardless of how he identifies and regardless of their “respectability” and there is no way of knowing if they’re the good sort or not based on appearance.
If you were any sort of decent person you would have empathy for this position but it’s all you, you, you.
Oh, and it’s fewer, not less. We want fewer rapes, fewer sexual assaults, and fewer occasions when women and girls are made to feel uncomfortable to validate your place in society.