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My feelings about men

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BoxyLoxy · 24/01/2020 20:01

Name changed, obviously.

Im a regular on here although mostly lurking.

I was wondering how other people reconcile their feelings about how fucking awful the patriarchy is, how men as a group are basically toxic and even the 'good ones' have an incredibly low bar for being decent humans.

Im married, and seriously reconsidering it because I feel this ongoing utter despair at the myriad injustices I put up with. I would NEVER EVER pursue a relationship with a man if I did leave.

Anyone else feel the same? Is this normal?!

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Guardiola8436 · 25/01/2020 12:08

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UYScuti · 25/01/2020 12:10

Oh if you could see my eyelashes😻 Theprodigalkitten
I'm just dangerous with my eyelashes 👁️ 👁️

Guardiola8436 · 25/01/2020 12:11

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TheProdigalKittensReturn · 25/01/2020 12:11

Somehow I just can't get this song out of my head...

Guardiola8436 · 25/01/2020 12:12

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UYScuti · 25/01/2020 12:12

and are you an incel Guardiola?
Would you like to talk to us about that sweetie...how does it make you feel?

RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 25/01/2020 12:12

UY

Oh forgot to congratulate you on your alliteration skills

Very well done

Guardiola8436 · 25/01/2020 12:13

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UYScuti · 25/01/2020 12:14

Guardiola, do you use mascara or are they natural?
Perhaps you dye them?
mind you... that can get in your eyes can't it😖🙈

UYScuti · 25/01/2020 12:15

Could have sex anytime
Wow that sounds like a superpower what's your ....technique?

Guardiola8436 · 25/01/2020 12:15

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RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 25/01/2020 12:15

UY

You can get eyelashes permed as well 😳

Guardiola8436 · 25/01/2020 12:16

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TheProdigalKittensReturn · 25/01/2020 12:16

And then a pegasus that was also a unicorn swooped in and took our angry young man away to the Land of Hot Submissive Babes, where he would have lived happily ever after, but he threw a tantrum there too cause that's just who he is.

UYScuti · 25/01/2020 12:16

I noticed youre rather fixated on the horse face thing though?
(what's that about?)

Guardiola8436 · 25/01/2020 12:17

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TheProdigalKittensReturn · 25/01/2020 12:17

You can definitely get your lashes dyed, rufus - I know because my very blond ex did it so his would be more visible. I was a bit "are you sure you want to get the dye that close to your eyeball?"

UYScuti · 25/01/2020 12:18

typical feminist tactics
I didn't realise I was using the typical feminist tactic😲
but now that you've put me straight I can add that to my list of typical feminist tactics 😊✊

UYScuti · 25/01/2020 12:19

I dye my eyebrows quite a lot but eyelashes...
woah that's dodgy 😲

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CallofDoodee · 25/01/2020 12:19

Wowzers, is this you 'destroying' us, as you put it? 😂

CallofDoodee - so let me get this straight: your solution in society is for women to do what benefits women, and men to do what benefits men, rather than humans to do what benefits humans? That entire post reads like pro-female propaganda. Also ironic you all talk about females having more 'empathy' (a social construct), when there's not a modicum of empathy there for men with prostate cancer.

Nope, never said any of that. I never said that I don't have empathy for men with prostate cancer, and I never said that humans cant do things to benefit humans.

I said that whenever something is done by women to specifically benefit women, men always use that as a reason that they are so hard done by and no one cares about them. But they never seem to be willing to step up and actually do something about it themselves, except berate women for doing something that benefits them.

You obviously feel strongly about prostate cancer, so what have you been doing to try and raise funding and awareness for it, and what barriers have you felt that you have faced? That you feel women doing the same for breast cancer have not faced?

SallyMolly · 25/01/2020 12:19

Guardiola does your name have 'deep' in it?

AshenQueen · 25/01/2020 12:19

And then a pegasus that was also a unicorn swooped in and took our angry young man away to the Land of Hot Submissive Babes, where he would have lived happily ever after, but he threw a tantrum there too cause that's just who he is.

😂😂😂😂

theflushedzebra · 25/01/2020 12:20

I have been described as ranging from average looking to quite handsome.

Why do you want us to know this? Why do you think we'd even take you at your word? Perhaps you are shallow enough to think that a person's looks are all that matter.

I find that incels do go on about this stuff all the time - bemoaning that women find -say- Ryan Gosling attractive - as you just have. But unattractive men get dates, get married, all the time - probably through having a nice personality, good sense of humour, and treating women as fellow human beings - and not by moaning about the "chads" getting all the girls, and calling women cunts.