Oh good, @GirlOnTheRoof, you're back. You missed my question last time, so I'll repeat it.
Vicky, here's what I don't get.
I appreciate that you identify as a woman. But you don't seem to identify with women. Women are threatened and anxious when naked and vulnerable around male bodies. One in three women are raped in their lifetime, and in an open plan changing room, when they have an expectation of privacy, if a male body walks through it could retraumatise. It's an intrusion and a potentially harmful one. You could cause real distress and suffering, and you will almost certainly have caused discomfort and unease.
This is not because of transphobia. It's because every woman on earth is aware from very early on that male bodies pose a risk to us. Your internal sense of whether your gender identity is masculine or feminine isn't something we can see, or recognise. Your body is. And your body, in contrast with your inner sense of your gender, remains male.
As a woman, why aren't you cognisant of all the inculcated, well founded anxiety women feel around natally male bodies, and why is our own peace of mind and our own distress not as valuable as your having access to our spaces? You were offered a unisex setting, but didn't feel that was good enough. You wanted the right to walk through a room of changing women to feel validated as one of them. And their feelings weren't of the slightest interest to you.
Please explain your thought processes here, and why you decided your needs mattered more than anyone else's?