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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury’s Public Service Announcement 3.1

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GirlDownUnder · 12/08/2019 13:44

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

This is a continuation of the first Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3438714-Bunbury-s-Public-Service-Announcement-2

Thread 3 was deleted with this note from MNHQ; We're sure there will be a Bunbury 4 around soon, but we'd be grateful if we could draw a line under the issues raised in this thread if there's to be a new one.

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we’ve had several community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the first posts on thread 2 (linked above) but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

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Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 22/08/2019 18:18

We need all the marrow we can get our hands on

😳

TinselAngel · 22/08/2019 18:22

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ThighThighOfthigh · 22/08/2019 18:23

Small name changes would do the trick.

We're in a constant state of readiness should we need to storm and decimate a fat shaming thread or similar. We'd expect violent support from the RFFs should we need to wage war.

So, best you just become Thighs. People give us a wide berth.

TheLidoOfThighs · 22/08/2019 19:41

I can’t believe Fermat has shrugged off your marriage like that Thigh!

Rufus you can exist on more than one forum at a time?

FermatsTheorem · 22/08/2019 19:50

I'm heartless, what can I say? (I blame Thigh for harvesting my organs).

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 22/08/2019 20:10

I know lido Grin

Its just I’ll keep forgetting to change back....I’ll see if i can find my password and set up a new name

ThighThighOfthigh · 22/08/2019 21:26

I'm not deterred by Fermat's temporary rejection. One day she'll crack.

ThighThighOfthigh · 22/08/2019 21:27

The thing is Lido she accepted with such alacrity and enthusiasm that it fair warmed my cockles.

ErrolTheDragon · 23/08/2019 00:02

Maybe you could just use one of your older NNs, Rufus, you've had some variants haven't you?

ErrolTheDragon · 23/08/2019 00:15

The Banbury (sic) thread has been accused of having too much fun.

GirlDownUnder · 23/08/2019 00:21

Oh no ErrolTheDragon I promise I am wearing my bestest po-face and pearls. Halo

Honest.

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TheLidoOfThighs · 23/08/2019 05:16
GirlDownUnder · 23/08/2019 05:46
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Ali1cedowntherabbithole · 23/08/2019 08:32

Some sterling work on the twilight shift last night. A very powerful microscope confirming a hypothesis.

TinselAngel · 23/08/2019 08:47

Can't you ride a fanny horse Thigh?

GirlDownUnder · 23/08/2019 08:50

Only if it’s name is Fanny Gallops 😂😂😂

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TinselAngel · 23/08/2019 09:10

Grin Girl

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 23/08/2019 13:25

That true errol

GirlDownUnder · 23/08/2019 15:02

Hahahaha Tinsel I amuse myself.

It’s Friday night here, and late, and I have all my organs but I’m pretty sure I [TMI turn away now if you’re delicate] really sometimes want to shit in my hands and clap just so some people ‘be quiet’.

Does one need an invite to the Thighs Underthingy or does one just find it?

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ThighThighOfthigh · 23/08/2019 15:16

Follow your nose.

FannyCann · 23/08/2019 23:13

It's Friday night. Winehas been imbibed. I'm not responsible for my posts. But I'm not yet seeing double. Funny how a poster has started two similar threads and they have both been deleted in a short time. I would post a screen grab but I fear that would merit a deletion.

FannyCann · 23/08/2019 23:16

Hell I think I have credit - not had a deletion for a while.
Sometimes this thread gets too oblique for the dimwits like me.

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LangCleg · 23/08/2019 23:25

Fanny - you should drunkpost more often!

FannyCann · 23/08/2019 23:28

Just catch me on a Friday night. I have been flamed before now. 😂

2BthatUnnoticed · 23/08/2019 23:57

FloralBunting 💜
JessicaWakefield 💚

I saw you both mention you’re leaving MN and I wanted to say... Noooo!

I understand though.

It’s disheartening that a subset of people can weaponise the TOS against women.

It’s bizarre that a women experiencing homelessness, who don’t want to sleep besides unknown males, are regarded as engaging in hate speech!

I think MN should go the other way. Lift all the bans and have everyone back.