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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury’s Public Service Announcement 3.1

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GirlDownUnder · 12/08/2019 13:44

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

This is a continuation of the first Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3438714-Bunbury-s-Public-Service-Announcement-2

Thread 3 was deleted with this note from MNHQ; We're sure there will be a Bunbury 4 around soon, but we'd be grateful if we could draw a line under the issues raised in this thread if there's to be a new one.

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we’ve had several community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the first posts on thread 2 (linked above) but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

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spinninghag · 24/08/2019 01:44

Sorry if this has already been covered, but what's up with the zombie threads?

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 24/08/2019 02:47

@FloralBunting 💜
@JessicaWakefieldSV

Please don't go. I'd call you my sisters if it didn't sound cheesy. Take some time out if you must - I've done that myself because it gets exhausting and discouraging - but your presence and contributions mean a lot to me. I value everything you say, and I'm sure I'm not alone.

2BthatUnnoticed · 24/08/2019 04:29

spinning some people are having a malfunction, whereby their “front page” shows all old threads, and they don’t realise and post on them.

Could also be some CDs stirring the pot.

spinninghag · 24/08/2019 10:24

Oh, thank you so much 2B!

Couldn't figure out why all these old threads were resurfacing!

Also will echo: please don't go Floral and Jessica
Flowers

You'd be missed greatly.

FannyCann · 24/08/2019 11:14

One old thread that has resurfaced is attracting the wasp chewers.

FannyCann · 24/08/2019 11:21

Also second Prawn

Please don't go Floral and Jessica.

JessicaWakefieldSV · 24/08/2019 11:47

Thanks for the love you wonderful women! I am on a final warning, even though I didn’t realise I had others! For something I think is ridiculous & happens all the time on other boards, so it’s more about just not accepting I must walk on eggshells around men harassing us... the moderations are too like other platforms for me and I can no longer accept it- the inconsistency genuinely has me wondering what we can or can’t say and when I ask in good faith I get in more trouble! So i either leave or I’m sure they’ll ban me at some point!

I really do hope to see you all on Spinster sometime soon!

LangCleg · 24/08/2019 12:39

I'm with Prawn - take breaks - we all need 'em - but please come back!

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 24/08/2019 12:57

can no longer accept it- the inconsistency

This is it

And not being told that youve done anything wrong and then ‘SURPRISE...THIS IS YOUR 3RD AND FINAL WARNING (even though we didnt bother telling you about the first two)

Scottish power do this a lot...this is a final meter reading request, we have contacted you a number of times....no you bloody haven’t Hmm

littlbrowndog · 24/08/2019 13:02

Yeah wasp chewers I like that

The wasps are being pesky outside today

Melroses · 24/08/2019 16:25

Scottish power do this a lot I keep getting those automated phonecalls which tell me BT are going to disconnect my internet. They aren't, but the spam callers can play on the lack of proper communication.

Everyone needs a break - hope Jess makes it back. Wasps annoying this time of year Hmm

ErrolTheDragon · 24/08/2019 16:46

The BT ones are so ridiculous, as if any company would cut off its subscribers abruptly ...

Melroses · 24/08/2019 16:56

They are - yet they will ring you back all afternoon on slightly different numbers...…….

Chickenish · 24/08/2019 17:54

Read an article about BT somehow selling a phone line to a different company. Then the line got cut off. Pretty sure it was in The Times, so probably true.

TinselAngel · 24/08/2019 19:33

Bump

GCAcademic · 24/08/2019 19:49

Happy Saturday Evening everyone . . .

LangCleg · 24/08/2019 19:58

Even though everyone else is watching boxing and I am at a loose end...

... I. Will. Not. Indulge.

(It's like a New Years resolution only on FWR.)

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 24/08/2019 19:59

Thats very good of you lang

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 24/08/2019 20:00

On that note however

Any vestiges of sympathy or benefit of the doubt giving...

Gone...its like a cleanse

LangCleg · 24/08/2019 20:11
Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 24/08/2019 20:15

You are so not going to be able to resist Grin

And I’ll be there waiting...and lolling

LangCleg · 24/08/2019 20:22

My options:

Watching the boxing.
Being good.
Failing at failing to indulge.

I'm running a book on it.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 24/08/2019 20:30

Dh has just gone to pick dd up from Pride

I think she has had a great time with her brother and his boyfriend

I’m trying to not drink a whole bottle of wine...ive never done it before but I’m obviously in the right mood

FannyCann · 24/08/2019 20:32

I'm not a fan of boxing. But I used to enjoy Sumo Wrestling when channel 4 used to make a big deal of it, who were the stars, what training they did, how many calories they ate, what their little war cries were. It was all rather interesting.

NeurotrashWarrior · 24/08/2019 20:33

Hey all, Ive been on a thyroid induced haitus recently and cohesive thought was very uncohesive but I think the thyroxine plus incoming is starting to kick start me back...

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