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Bunbury’s Public Service Announcement 3.1

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GirlDownUnder · 12/08/2019 13:44

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

This is a continuation of the first Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3438714-Bunbury-s-Public-Service-Announcement-2

Thread 3 was deleted with this note from MNHQ; We're sure there will be a Bunbury 4 around soon, but we'd be grateful if we could draw a line under the issues raised in this thread if there's to be a new one.

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we’ve had several community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the first posts on thread 2 (linked above) but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

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Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 02/09/2019 09:53

🐂💩

I like this one ☝️

NorberErratics · 02/09/2019 09:54

Torch looks like an orange sorbet cone to me.

I can never remember the Easter bunny one.
Dragon

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 02/09/2019 09:55

Took me ages to figure out i could put my iPad emoji into my posts

LangCleg · 02/09/2019 09:59

I. AM. SULKING.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 02/09/2019 10:09

Didnt it used to be Tardis

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 02/09/2019 10:09

Oooh ive done it

Yay

TinselAngel · 02/09/2019 10:23

🥕 a caret?

GirlDownUnder · 02/09/2019 10:33
Tardis Tennis
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ErrolTheDragon · 02/09/2019 10:52

There are times when FootballTennisFootballTennisFootballTennisFootballTennis might be an appropriate response.Grin

zebrasdontwearbras · 02/09/2019 11:18

Grin Tinsel.

^ = a caret. I think....

Doing 4 of them used to be how I did a blank post - it works for me, but not for ipad it seems.

zebrasdontwearbras · 02/09/2019 11:20

^^

zebrasdontwearbras · 02/09/2019 11:21

The husband tells me I can't spend all day on Mumsnet now the kids are back to school. He says I have to de-clutter the house Sad

LangCleg · 02/09/2019 11:34

Nobody loves me, everybody hates me, think I'll go and...

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 02/09/2019 11:44

To the garden and eat worms

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 02/09/2019 11:44

He says I have to de-clutter the house sad

I’d start with him

zebrasdontwearbras · 02/09/2019 11:48

Rufus Grin Grin Ha - He's quite nice to have around really.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 02/09/2019 11:52

Im sure he is

Mines lovely

Ive just jacked in a very small part time job and our plan is that i get a better grasp on our spending..as we spend money like water

I may have timed that badly with this whole brexit business though

zebrasdontwearbras · 02/09/2019 11:55

brexit - oh god don't remind me.

GirlDownUnder · 02/09/2019 12:08

Errol I may or may not have used TennisTennis when talking about wax my balls Yaniv 🤷🏻‍♀️😉

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Weezol · 02/09/2019 12:35

One thing that took me a long time to figure out about the malignant narcissist in my life was this: ANY attention, ANY reaction was desirable and affirming to that person.

Oh hell aye, I try to remember this 'We don't reward bad behaviour with attention' and variations thereof but do occasionally get sucked in.

I can't emoji for toffee, but I offer a stunt🍍in apology.

Aberhonddu · 02/09/2019 12:42

Datun · 02/09/2019 12:43

Oh ffs. Am I the only one who can't do a blank post?

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 02/09/2019 12:44

I cant do one datun

Or lang...i think 🤔

BarbaraStrozzi · 02/09/2019 12:50

Nope I can't either. It's just snottily saying "message is required." Clearly I am technologically illiterate in that I can't circumvent this.

Datun · 02/09/2019 12:51

Is it only people who are on the app, or on a certain phone?

Disgruntled.

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