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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury’s Public Service Announcement 3.1

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GirlDownUnder · 12/08/2019 13:44

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

This is a continuation of the first Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3438714-Bunbury-s-Public-Service-Announcement-2

Thread 3 was deleted with this note from MNHQ; We're sure there will be a Bunbury 4 around soon, but we'd be grateful if we could draw a line under the issues raised in this thread if there's to be a new one.

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we’ve had several community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the first posts on thread 2 (linked above) but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

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ThighThighOfthigh · 24/08/2019 21:24

Stop resisting, you know you love being harvested. Coy.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 24/08/2019 21:26

It does a lot sophocles, fights bacteria and cleans the blood

Friends son lost his spleen and he is on a lifetime of medication

Asks the thighwomen to give it back maybe?

SophoclesTheFox · 24/08/2019 21:32

Hey, I need that liver, lady!

Pffft. I’m off to bed before I’m all out of organs.

LangCleg · 24/08/2019 22:32

I win!

GirlDownUnder · 25/08/2019 01:35

Ha! I probably should have come here first. But no. I jumped straight in, two feet.
I’m happy with my contribution tho, specially the second post cos Labi.

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GirlDownUnder · 25/08/2019 01:43

I am on a final warning, even though I didn’t realise I had others!

I had this from MN a little while back...

As this certainly isn't the first time that we've had to look into your posts, we will need to consider a permanent ban in future, should your posts continue to cause concern.

Which was news to me as I’d no other warnings. I don’t think I’m that contentious, and I don’t generally mis-gender. T’was the weekend tho, so 🤷‍♀️

Maybe it’s just a copypasta they use, and it’s not ‘personal’.

I’m def a little egg shelly now tho. Unintended or not.

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2BthatUnnoticed · 25/08/2019 11:31

Waaaaat? Girl you’d have to be one of the the most laidback, congenial posters on here. And “final warning” but with no priors? It must be a mistake - I would email them and clarify.

It feels quite dystopian sometimes. Under his eye.

Cascade220 · 25/08/2019 11:49

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

2BthatUnnoticed · 25/08/2019 11:52

And yes huge thanks to @FloralBunting and @JessicaWakefieldSV, I have valued your voices so much. I think strong voices attract extra reporting, although I never saw anything from either of you that seemed even close to breaching a rule.

Jessica I remember you being invaluable on the lesbian support thread that time - thank you Smile

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 25/08/2019 11:54

I think strong voices attract extra reporting

Hell yeah

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 25/08/2019 11:57

Bold fail

LangCleg · 25/08/2019 12:13

It is possible to make excellent posts within the rules, posters like Lang, Datun and Barracker do not water down their message, but they show us how we can post within the rules. Use them as role models!

Be more Datun!

I've had a few if you're not a good girl going forwards we might have to do something... emails!

GirlDownUnder · 25/08/2019 13:50

I did say on an earlier thread in part reply to Barracker

...we’re not going to change minds, so I should sow my seed in more fertile ground, and not waste my labour on those that cannot or will not listen.

But bloody hell. I think my toughest lesson was realising MN wasn’t ‘for’ me, it’s the community and the GC here. MN is a ‘for profit’ platform and I’m tolerated because click bait / advertising / future proofing their product.
MN is not benign.

And cheers 2B Wine

But I def like hanging out her, so I’ll tread those egg shells as long as I’m permitted.

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GirlDownUnder · 25/08/2019 13:52

And wow LangCleg - you too?! I’m amazed!

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Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 25/08/2019 14:14

wow LangCleg - you too?! I’m amazed

Dont want to be rude here...but really?

LangCleg · 25/08/2019 14:33

Yes. Me. Sometimes I get shouty, you know!

I think two or three suspension warnings. I forget which.

LangCleg · 25/08/2019 14:34

Dont want to be rude here...but really?

ErrolTheDragon · 25/08/2019 14:47

As far as I can remember the only deletion I've had was the accidental one for a post using 'he' - but I was referring to Donald Trump.

Perhaps I should be more forthright on occasion - an enforced break from MN would probably be good for me TBH

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 25/08/2019 14:53
Grin
GirlDownUnder · 25/08/2019 16:09

Ok I’ve poked the bear....

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/site_stuff/3674784-Deleted-posts-Suspension-warnings-FWR?msgid=89572133

😬

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picklemepopcorn · 25/08/2019 17:18

Erm, sorry to interrupt... where did the 'cuddly transvestite' go? I know my app's a bit glitchy, but I can't find it anywhere and thought you fierce lot might give me a clue.

TinselAngel · 25/08/2019 17:20

The humble, cuddly transvestite was deleted.

ErrolTheDragon · 25/08/2019 17:27

I didn't think what he'd posted was against guidelines - maybe MNHQ did a 'look behind the scenes'?Confused (assuming it's the post I'm thinking of)

picklemepopcorn · 25/08/2019 17:29

Jolly good. What was the message, anything exciting? Pbp, goady, or multiple deletions makes it impossible to read?
I was going to look in and see if he'd learned anything yet. One day, maybe.

ThighThighOfthigh · 25/08/2019 17:32

That was funny Errol, poor Donald.