Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Men tweeting how they became GC

106 replies

chilling19 · 07/08/2019 23:31

Great thread started by Jack Appleby.

twitter.com/jackappleby/status/1159155143000170496?s=21

OP posts:
BatShite · 08/08/2019 13:50

Great thread, thanks. Another 'confused' by the lack of TRA pile ons, odd isn't it, how they leave men alone and only scream at women?!

2BthatUnnoticed · 08/08/2019 14:03

That Jack is a great ally. Good to see more men in the convo.

boatyardblues · 08/08/2019 14:03

The lack of pile on is so overt it makes me think this would be an interesting topic for academic research, along the lines of: what % of male posters in the ratios mean that the TRAs sit it out, is the popularity (eg # of followers) of the tweeters a factor or the ratio of opinion etc.

Also, it is a great thread (thanks Jack) and interesting to hear men speaking so openly about their views on male violence/the impact on their lives.

NotAtMyAge · 08/08/2019 15:14

I spotted it just before I was intending to go to bed and stayed up to read right through it. I went to bed feeling distinctly encouraged. Off now to see who else has posted on it.

GurlwiththeCurl · 08/08/2019 15:22

Loved reading that thread. As a second wave feminist mum of two adult DSs, I hope that I have had a similar effect on them.

boatyardblues · 08/08/2019 15:51

I spotted it just before I was intending to go to bed and stayed up to read right through it. I went to bed feeling distinctly encouraged.

Same.

TirisfalPumpkin · 08/08/2019 16:07

I sent this to my DH. I think he finds being a peaked man a bit isolating, when so many men we know are ‘nice guy’ on the attached image - right down to the facial hair. (Not mine, via Twitter)

Men tweeting how they became GC
boatyardblues · 08/08/2019 16:14

Francis Wheen has posted on Jack’s thread.

chilling19 · 08/08/2019 17:22

Tirisfal Oh the beards 👏

OP posts:
littlbrowndog · 08/08/2019 17:40

The beards. 🔥

chilling19 · 08/08/2019 18:33

A shout out to the women who put their heads above the parapet (which I can't do yet) - you have consistently been measured and respectful and have been name checked on the twitter thread or are someone I have followed.

All the work you have done matters; still a way to go, but thank you.

So, with a H/T to @JackAppleby and @Glinner here is the roll call (in no particular order/mixture of full names and twitter handles- additions welcome):

MeghanMurphy (miss you loads)
Lisa Muggeridge (hope you are OK)
Julie Bindel (a juggernaut)
4thwavenow (great work)
Germaine Greer (saw this coming before a lot of us were born)
Alison Moyet (come back woman)
Sharron Davies (legend status on it's way)
Martina (LEGEND)
Sharron Davies (legend status on it's way)
Docstockk (and she persisted)
ManFriday (excellent snark)
Fair play to Women (beautiful organisational skills)
Transgender Trend (watchful waiting, exactly right)
Joosty
Helenstaisland
Sarah Ditum
GettheLout
Helen Steel
Dr Louise Moody
boodleloops
Jane Clare Jones
Pankhurstem
Fondofbeetles
Goinglikeelsie
Mrkhtake2
Helensteele12
HJjoyceecon
Lily Maynard
Brunskellevans

Also, to all the trans women and men out there who are despairing of this clusterfuck - GC feminists and GC women are not your enemy. We don't want to WIN, we want to find a way that works for all of us, particularly for our children. And we will, because we have decades of experience fighting inequality and we will persist.

❤️

OP posts:
HerFemaleness · 08/08/2019 19:00

Do TRAs and allies ever post threads about how they used to be GC.

Something like ...

"I used to be GC but then I grew a beard and now I realise that women really do have lady brains, and women who deny this deserve violence"

terryleather · 08/08/2019 19:20

The Beards are everything!
Whoever came up with those I give you Gin Cake Flowers
And an immensely cheering Twitter thread to boot.

truthisarevolutionaryact · 08/08/2019 19:39

It's time to bring this inspiring piece about so many of the names below:

truthisarevolutionaryact · 08/08/2019 19:39

Names above!

AnotherLass · 08/08/2019 19:39

Wow, there are now over 600 replies. You can't actually read it all without serious dedication. Bless them.

Bezalelle · 08/08/2019 19:53

I mean, it's great. Really great. But what's it going to change? These men need to be doing something to help us, not just posting on Twitter.

zebrasdontwearbras · 08/08/2019 19:57

I tell you, that video (and the twitter thread) has made me teary.

Wonderful stuff. Brilliant women.

chilling19 · 08/08/2019 20:16

It is happening. We now have a thread of guys we can call on to support us.

OP posts:
SonicVersusGynaephobia · 08/08/2019 20:25

I read this last night but it seems seems there are now hundreds of replies so I'm going to go back and read it some more.

Wonderful men, praising even more wonderful women. ❤️

Trohmaniac · 08/08/2019 20:27

I saw it yesterday and was just waiting for them to be piled on but...nothing!

And no sign of the usual suspects on this thread either.

It's almost as if there's a distinct aim of abusing outspoken women...

FormerMediocreMale · 08/08/2019 21:49

Bezalelle

It may not do much. However the TPA try to make out that everyone is on their side apart from a few nasty women. This shows that to be untrue, it shows a wide range of people, including beardy woke brewing bloke, are GC, it shows we have much wider support. It shows people take notice, hear what is being said, research for themselves...

FormerMediocreMale · 08/08/2019 21:55

Chilling I would add the tiny number of politicians that have put their heads above the parapet, Joan and Joanna in particular but also David Davis.

Certain journalists have also had a huge impact in bringing this to the public.

Voice0fReason · 08/08/2019 22:39

It's a great thread. Lovely to hear so many male voices supporting reason!

MrsJamin · 08/08/2019 22:49

Are men ever called terfs? Or is it just us lady genteel types who are meant to die in a fire?

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is closed and is no longer accepting replies. Click here to start a new thread.