As a bisexual woman I am fucking disgusted that OJ is making out this is an issue of homophobia.
It absolutely isn't. Neither is it an issue of transphobia, kink shaming or fetish judging.
It's about someone absolutely, undeniably acting in an unprofessional way by videoing themselves wanking and pissing at work then uploading it to the internet.
The rubber and the fact it's a children's charity are just additional factors that make people uncomfortable.
A straight man doing this would be fired. Therefore so should a gay or trans man or woman. THAT is equality.
My sexuality does not give me the right to carte blanche when it comes to expecting preferential treatment when I am in the wrong.
He made an unprofessional and foolish decision to film and share what he did. That is the fact of the matter - having equal consequences to straight cis counterparts is not homophobia or transphobia, it is equality in action.
And now OJ has run away. He cannot seriously believe that any action there than firing the NSPCC employee in question would be appropriate.
Again I am bisexual and have of course encountered homophobia. Not in my fucking name OJ, how dare you use my sexuality to defend the indefensible.