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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

In general, what do you feel about The LGBT Foundation using a 'gender fluid' person to promote lesbian visibility day?

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ChrisPrattAteMyHomework · 26/04/2019 20:43

No links. No judgement of any one perticular person.

Just a discussion about the GENERAL situation as my original post was removed for not being in the spirit

Yet another lesbian deletion.

Am really getting fucking sick if this.

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Itwouldtakemuchmorethanthis · 28/04/2019 16:38

What interest? And - indeed - what possibility? Have I missed something?
Grin the circular thought processes are interesting.

So A is male, but wants to be female because he feels that is “who he truly is”.
However A does not feel attracted to men and so would like to have relationships with women. A decided that A is a transwoman lesbian.

Disappointingly female lesbians don’t want to sleep with A because THEY believe A is a heterosexual male transwoman and they rather obviously are only attracted to female partners. They veto A as a potential partner.

If A cannot have relationships with lesbian females, A can only have relationships with other transwoman. This would not be a lesbian relationship because both parties are male.

Itwouldtakemuchmorethanthis · 28/04/2019 16:39

Honestly I’m just yacking. Lesbians are women, have female reproductive organs and don’t have willys. I have known this for a long long time and it’s fairly key to...being a lesbian.

SophoclesTheFox · 28/04/2019 16:57

I had to skip huge chunks of the derail, but going back to that pink news video...it was posted on social media by my young, very newly out niece, so I watched it, thinking to myself “bet there’ll be a stray Y chromosome in this somewhere. They can’t help themselves”.

And lo, it came to pass. I feel so very, very sad for my lesbian friends and family. How can my niece express her sexual orientation when the institutions that are supposed to be there to support her in it are undermining the very definition of those orientations? How is she to make sense of her sexuality in this Humpty Dumpty world? It’s breaking my heart.

Lesbian = female homosexual.

ZebrasAreBras · 28/04/2019 20:03

I recently realised that I've started judging people by how they react to the cotton ceiling. If they don't see it as a problem or minimise it or pretend they haven't heard of it or its made up, I assume they have dodgy views on sexual violence.

I do the same. It was the whole cotton-ceiling / lady penis stuff that peak-transed me in the first place.

To hear young lesbians on social media - and no doubt in real life too - being told, being pressurised to get used to the penis, that it's not a male sexual organ, because it belongs to them, and they are definitely a woman, because they say so, and so much other stuff that I'm not even going to type here - makes me sick. It's a rape culture.

Lesbians are attracted to women. Women don't have penises.

SophoclesTheFox · 28/04/2019 20:43

Just had a conversation with a friend who is dealing with situation at work where an employee has come to her distraught over a colleague habitually referring to another colleague as “little dyke”.

We’re so far from done with harmful lesbophobia. My blood is boiling about appropriation. Stop erasing lesbians.

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