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Caroline farrow support thread 2

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ilovejeffgoldblum · 04/04/2019 10:09

Hi I'm a long time lurker, who read with disgust the last thread and wants to send Thanks, to caro. I've scanned since last thread finished for new one but no luck! Hope no one minds if I start one!

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eurochick · 30/04/2019 13:56

Carl, I don't agree with all of your views but you are right on this.

Turning up at your door sounds like an attempt to intimidate. Court orders can usually be served by putting them in the post.

I hope you have a great lawyer and can wipe the floor with these twats.

eurochick · 30/04/2019 13:56

*Caro, not Carl.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 30/04/2019 14:02

Someone was just in it for the drama. Like a nasty schoolchild pulling the legs off a spider.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 30/04/2019 14:03

And dont call them the T word. For obvious reasons.

Absolutepowercorrupts · 30/04/2019 14:04

Eurochick
The judge ordered that they were to be delivered personally i.e. to Caroline. The narc decided that this meant that Steph was meant to personally deliver them. That's how terrified and scared the narc is, they are so brave that they went to their alleged abusers house to hand them over.
Dear me, I've just written that and I'm not even sure if it says what happened Confused

AncientLights · 30/04/2019 14:06

Why the urge to tell Caroline 'I don't agree with all your views'? We could all say that to anyone surely. This issue is what it is and we all agree, with the exception of any trans advocates who may have popped up, that Caro has been, and is still being, treated appallingly.

SarahPickles · 30/04/2019 14:20

Stephanie Hayden has posted on here that she is a Roman Catholic.

I'm speechless.

Caroline farrow support thread 2
DancingRaven · 30/04/2019 14:20

Scottow is still awaiting the CPS decision but Hayden is also bringing a civil case against her.

JessicaWakefieldSV · 30/04/2019 14:28

Scottow is still awaiting the CPS decision but Hayden is also bringing a civil case against her.

Thanks for that, so they have initiated a civil case against Scottow also. That needs adding to the spreadsheet if anyone happens to be creating one for the Attorney Generals attention. It’s good to watch how they all turn out as that information is required when submitting details of a vexatious litigant.

HandsOffMyRights · 30/04/2019 14:39

I'll chip in too. Sorry you are having to go through this Caroline.
You are standing up to bully boy tactics because this kind of harrassment towards women is never acceptable.

We try to teach boys this so why two grown ups feel this is a way to behave is beyond most decent people.

SarahPickles · 30/04/2019 14:44

Jessica, when you talk about a spreadsheet, is there someone actually collating all of Miss Hayden's activities -- apart from the "farmers" I mean? I'd like to think so.

(I mainly only lurk because I am scared to post in case I accidentally say the wrong thing and get banned for "terffing".)

TheHammaconda · 30/04/2019 15:19

This web page details how you bring a case to the High Court. To a non-legal person (such as myself), hearing that a High Court Order has been served sounds terrifying. However, it appears that anyone can lodge a claim of slander, defamation or libel as long as they fill in the forms and pay the fee.

There are circuit courts where the paperwork can be lodged - why on earth would someone and their friend travel to London to do it? It's almost like they're doing it this way in order to make some kind of grand statement on Twitter, in order to impress upon everyone the gravity of the situation - otherwise why would the High Court be dealing with it?

JessicaWakefieldSV · 30/04/2019 15:55

Yeah, all you have to do is fill in a form and pay a fee, you then choose how to serve the claim to the defendant.

BlodwynBludd · 30/04/2019 16:05

Donated. Thoughts are with Caroline at a very difficult time.

Carowiththegoodhair · 30/04/2019 16:08

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BlodwynBludd · 30/04/2019 16:37

I hope you raise enough to cover your coats Caroline. Already donated but I hope you know how many people are rooting for you.

AbsintheFriends · 30/04/2019 16:42

I'm wondering which is the best way to donate. Could anyone signpost me to the PayPal address if that's Caro's preferred option?

PenguindreamsofDraco · 30/04/2019 17:04

Caro, I have transferred via Paypal and will message you separately, but would it be possible to confirm that, at least for the present, donations are to a fund to enable you to obtain legal advice/representation against SH, rather than your ministry?

In a way utterly alien to most TRAs, I find myself able to agree with you utterly and entirely on this, whilst disagreeing with you in many other respects Grin

HebeMumsnet · 30/04/2019 17:48

Evening, everyone.

We're afraid we've had to delete a few posts here. As you might or might not know, we don't allow people to post links to crowdfunders on Mumsnet. But also, we feel that signposting people to crowdfunders elsewhere and that sort of thing, is part and parcel of the same issue, really.

We know that's disappointing for many people but we do have to apply the same rules fairly across the boards, regardless of what the cause is.

We're happy for everyone to be offering Caroline support here, but we think really this thread has to be a place for moral support only, rather than financial support.

Hope everyone understands where we're coming from. Thanks, as always, for your cooperation.

PenguindreamsofDraco · 30/04/2019 18:14

There's no rule against referring to people's blogs though is there? And if by accessing that blog, one sees a paypal link, where is the problem there?

Carowiththegoodhair · 30/04/2019 18:30

One of the things that is so disappointing (I understand @MNHQ ) is how I am constantly watched across every internet platform.

It’s very clear that there is a faction of extremely vindictive and spiteful people quite literally attempting to ruin our lives and financially destroy in order to exact revenge.

The power of an unhinged mob is really something to behold. There appears to be a concerted efforts to deny me any access to legal representation and therefore justice.

Satterthwaite · 30/04/2019 18:34

Really? If just gets worse and worse 😡

PenguindreamsofDraco · 30/04/2019 18:44

I feel increasingly these days that we are barely a hair's breadth removed from our ancestors who screamed about witches and jeered at tumbrils. The mob mentality is really exactly as it always was. People feel safe letting loose their baser instincts in a crowd.

fatasapancake · 30/04/2019 19:14

delurks

Can someone please pm me details to donate as I want to be sure the link I have found is the correct one. I don't have paypal.

Many thanks

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