But why would you want to go to a women only session if you are wanting distance from your sex?
Unlike prison and so forth - and I'm not agreeing with lucydo here
- swimming is a lower risk activity and mixed sex is the usual.
Anyway TBF none of it makes logical sense.
I have had a couple of chats with DD recently as she's started going to school independently. Including one triggered by an incident at a nearby school with a man following a girl.
i can't imagine many parents have chats with their 11yo sons about this specific risk?
Growing up female is v tricky, I'm sure boyhood is too, periods + the way men start to look at you (and poss more) as soon as your boobs start to grow is for a lot of girls really distressing. Who wouldn't want to ID out of that change from a child and no-one really looks your way to sex object in the eyes of way too many men?
Anyway we've been over this a million times.
My DD "ids" as non binary on things she's on, I don't blame her TBH. if I was her age now I'd be the same.