Like it or not, the US does not have a parliamentary government. That means just about all legislation passed had to appeal to some in both parties. Like it or not, it has a two-party system — if Democrats won’t offer support, the only alternative is Republicans.
Like it or not, the left and the Democrats have taken women voters for granted for decades, have presided over continued erosion of women’s rights and done nothing to stop that, and have told women repeatedly that women have nowhere else to go, using the lesser of two evils argument.
Leftists are extremely poor tacticians. Read Sun Tzu. Right now, approaching the right gives women LEVERAGE over the left.
Change happens at the point of pain. Unless what passes for left in the US and the Democrats themselves feel threatened by women, unless and until they must come ASKING for female support, instead of presuming it, women will get nothing from them. Much as we wish it would, electoral politics in he US doesn’t operate on principle.
It is not unusual for parties in the US to suddenly switch positions, for Republicans to outflank Democrats on the left, and vice versa. It wasn’t that long ago that the left was calling for removing US troops from Europe. Now the right is doing that, and the left is insisting on maintaining US military bases in Europe. It wasn’t that long ago that the left was advocating protectionist trade policies, and the right was all-in on free trade. Now those positions have flipped. It’s not out of the realm of possibility that as the left disavows women’s rights, the right will support women. Right wing women do use birth control and even obtain abortions, are raped, are sexually harrassed on the job, and right wing g parents of both sexes have daughters who, among other things, need college athletic scholarships. Some of them, like Dick Cheney, even have lesbian daughters and support gay rights — and I say that thinking, myself, that Dick Cheney is evil incarnate.