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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Reports of Macclesfield pub barring woman for wearing’adult human female’ T shirt

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MrsSnippyPants · 30/12/2018 22:37

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R0wantrees · 02/01/2019 13:07

I also think that Sue Pascoe's claim to be female is greater than the fact that some paperwork records an 'F' bacause Sue Pascoe has a GRC.

SlightAggrandising · 02/01/2019 13:58

Preemptively blocked by bear and squirrel. Probably the Challenor blocklist.
I now understand the "rat king" reference on Kiwi Farms. All interlinked & insidious.

alwaysthepessimist · 02/01/2019 15:20

I live in said town, I am not a lesbian nor a feminist nor a transgender either, as far as I am concerned live & let live, I do know the pub/bar/brewery though & I find it hard to believe she was chucked out just for that, it just doesn't seem like them at all. That said...I wasn't there so I have no idea.

There are always two sides to every story though and I would like to have a full chapter & verse off both of them before I make a judgement.

BTW - for all those wanting to come here....well....don't plan to send the entire day here...there isn't a lot to do at the busiest of times....

Floisme · 02/01/2019 15:47

I would like to hear full chapter and verse too because, ever since this story broke, there have been claims that we don’t know the full facts, and yet people seem strangely reluctant to tell us what these facts are, other than that the woman had reportedly been distributing Fair Play for Women leaflets on a previous visit.

News normally travela a lot faster than this on Twitter so I’m curious as to why this alleged full story is taking so long to reach us.

GenderIsAPrison · 02/01/2019 15:55

Because #transphobia is #nodebate

OrchidInTheSun · 02/01/2019 16:02

There is no more story. That's why it hasn't broken.

I don't know why people are surprised.

Women have been suspended from Twitter for saying Ian Huntley is male. A woman was denied victim compensation for referring to her assailant as he in court. Women have been forced to share a prison shower with a convicted rapist. Adult Human Female posters have been taken down from billboards across the country.

Why the fuck wouldn't a bar kick a woman out for distributing FPFW leaflets and wearing an AHF T-shirt?

Floisme · 02/01/2019 16:20

As I recall the claims that we didn’t know all the facts were made either by the bar or by people connected to the bar. (I can now longer see the Twitter feed so I can’t check - has it gone?) If that narrative has turned out to be incorrect then I don’t think it’s good enough for them to quietly let it drop. They should say so publicly.

baddaytoquitsmoking · 02/01/2019 16:40

Hi everyone,

Name changed for obvious reasons - I'm the woman who was barred from Fiveclouds. The story is basically what's been relayed to twitter and beyond. I was there with my girlfriend and best friend playing a board game, went for a cig where I saw a man who was so distressed by my tshirt (which he couldn't even see because I was wearing a coat) that he co ordinated movements to get me thrown out, because I had the audacity to ask him how he was.

I had been there previously with other fpfw campaigners in the summer wearing tshirts, and left leaflets there with permission. At no point had I been warned about 'transphobia', but had certainly have had some spirited discussions about it. One such discussion involved me being called homophobic, hilariously enough.

Anyway, the press are involved, as are lawyers. I've been advised not to say much about it, but I thought I should clarify what's on twitter is mostly accurate. We were playing board games and I was barred seemingly out of nowhere. After having been served 3 rounds and food. The stories that I was carried out drunk after starting fights are wholly untrue.

And thanks for the glowing testimony on page 4! That definitely brightened my week!

LangCleg · 02/01/2019 16:47

baddaytoquitsmoking - solidarity to you. The namechange is gallows humour at its best!

OrchidInTheSun · 02/01/2019 16:59

All power to you badday Smile

EmpressAdultHumanFemale · 02/01/2019 17:03

Cheers badday!

starcrossedseahorse · 02/01/2019 17:05

Thanks for this badday. I hope that you are ok. What happened to you is outrageous. I think we are all going to be fighting harder than ever this year. Solidarity.

Redshoeblueshoe · 02/01/2019 17:07

Badday 🍷

ILoveMaxiBondi · 02/01/2019 17:07

and left leaflets there with permission.

This is really important. It is being claimed on Twitter that you left these without permission. If you had permission then it throws the managements position on its head. They permitted those leaflets. That needs to be made public. That will leave quite a few people scratching heads Grin

Deliriumoftheendless · 02/01/2019 17:11

How on earth were you called homophobic, if you don’t mind me asking?

baddaytoquitsmoking · 02/01/2019 17:16

Cheers for the solidarity ladies. I was umming and ahhing about posting here lest it backfire somehow, but I'm totally in the clear here so here I am. Yes, I left leaflets there on 2 occasions, and was lied to when I asked what had happened to them the first time. Obviouslyl I had my suspicions about them just disappearing, but just asked if I could leave some more and was allowed. I had another fpfw campaigner with me at the time. The whole thing has been so underhand, right up until the other day I was a frequent regular (is that a thing?) and none of the staff have ever warned me about anything.

Redshoeblueshoe (no idea how to tag) cheers for the cheers but I'm attempting to quit booze too - or at the very least craft ale.

baddaytoquitsmoking · 02/01/2019 17:19

I was called homophobic because obviously trans rights are exactly the same as gay rights and if I oppose one I must oppose both. Never mind that at no point did I say I opposed trans rights. I was also categorically told that I oppose gay marriage. It all got rather out of hand.

I was on a date with a woman when this discussion took place. Make of that what you will.

papayasareyum · 02/01/2019 17:30

so the complaint of one snowflake trumps the rights of you and the overwhelming majority of the Twitterverse who are clearly on your side?

NothingOnTellyAgain · 02/01/2019 17:32

Badday is female and a lesbian to boot.

Of course her place is in the wrong.

CoffeeMilkNoSugar · 02/01/2019 17:33

And a damn assertive female too, so you know, couldn't possibly be worse, eh?

baddaytoquitsmoking · 02/01/2019 17:40

I had won the first round of the game we played, and subsequently felt even more deflated when I was made to leave. I feel this detail is important. My word game triumph has been completely overshadowed.

CoffeeMilkNoSugar · 02/01/2019 17:43

WHAT?!

THIS MEANS WAR.

ILoveMaxiBondi · 02/01/2019 17:43

Never mind that at no point did I say I opposed trans rights.

It would seem that today, being a woman = opposing trans rights.

Katvonbatshit · 02/01/2019 18:00

Just seen the delightful Natasha "I dox because I'm a tragic fuck" York attacking Louise Moody. The TRAs are all piling onto the university of York, because Louise did a joke about Lily being straight.
It's a funny old thread, TRAs seem to find reading a challenge, otherwise they would have grasped Louise doesn't work there. Still makes them feel special and righteous. Bless them.

Reports of Macclesfield pub barring woman for wearing’adult human female’ T shirt
Reports of Macclesfield pub barring woman for wearing’adult human female’ T shirt