Recently there were cartoon penis stickers with "women don't have penises" written on put up in public places.
TRAs described these as being transphobic, a hate crime, something that trans women should not have to tolerate due to the emotional harm such things could cause.
And yet, women are transphobic if they find it emotionally harmful to share a space with an actual penis, attached to someone who says they're a woman. They just have to accept it and deal with it, and even expressing it is to be condemned and shut down.
That's not even considering the physical harm some trans women with a penis might cause women. Trans women's pattern, type, breakdown of crimes is more like men's than it is women's.
The risk of harm to women is too great to allow a dogmatic approach based on feelings rather than facts to influence policy and safeguarding.
That trans people also need protection is clearly true, but not at the expense of women.