Fuck. Don't let this happen to you, UK sisters. We were asleep at the wheel good and proper.
I think most of us were “asleep at the wheel” back in 2015, @irishfeminist - I know it was only around that time I first became aware of the issues (thanks to a thread on AIBU on here). But I don’t think that was in any way our fault, or your fault, that you/we didn’t know what the hell was going on. I think that was entirely deliberate. Didn’t somebody say upthread that Stephen Whittle has actually boasted about helping get legislation through by stealth? Every bit of this has been under the radar, till very recently.
Add to that all the funding from the likes of Soros and Pritzker etc, the influence of a group of powerful, wealthy males claiming to be the most vulnerable and oppressed ever and piggybacking on the success of the gay rights movement, the sheer cowardice and lack of integrity from our elected representatives - we women didn’t stand a chance. Plus ça change...
The only reason women here have managed to get even this organised is, I think, that we have seen what’s gone before in Canada, the US, and of course Ireland. It’s still an uphill struggle, and trying to get the word out to women in general is a thankless task, but at least we had some warning in the shape of seeing what’s gone on elsewhere.
I'm sorry you were stitched up the way you were. It’s good to hear from a real Irish feminist, as opposed to the cool girlfriend types who wrote that letter earlier this year! Much solidarity with you.