Ok Rat, I'll bite.
But first of all I too read your comments on the sports consultation as telling people who didn't run sports directly that they shouldn't comment. May not have been what you meant but it's certainly how it came across.
So for my very own, with no attempt to speak for others, opinion.
I like some trans people. I don't like others. Same as with all people, there's good and bad. Previously I would have accepted them in female's spaces, I'd have given them a by. And I would like to do the same now, for the genuine ones. But I can't.
For a start how do you tell who is genuine? I don't mean when self ID comes in, I mean now. There are already rapists in prision who claim to be women, some have a GRC having convinced doctors etc. As far as I'm concerned anyone who isn't repulsed by their penis and uses it is not genuine- a few trans people in here feel the same.
Then we move on to who they are attracted to. I have always thought men and yes, that makes a difference. I have no problem someone looking at me admiringly (I hope!) but if I'm in a state of undress I don't want them to be physically much stronger than me. Not saying they would attack but I may feel they will. Lesbians (the cunty kind) staring might make me uncomfortable but it wouldn't make me afraid. And in my experience women don't stare in the same way that men do. I don't want to stereotype but that has been my experience.
Now the situation has changed. We know about AGP, we know that people's fetishes are being displayed in public. I don't want to be a part of anyone's sexual thrills. They are including me unwillingly. We can see that the trans umbrella has turned into s marquee. We can see the evidence of people like Jess Bradley and Karen White. And we can't tell them apart.
I have a voice. I am not in prision or a violent relationship. I have not been a victim of sexual violence. Many women are not so lucky, I am very privileged. And I am honour bound to use that voice.
With the old school transsexuals I have always been willing to let them in. Knowing more, as I do now, I can see a lot of arguments for not doing so as to protect survivors. I would not have been massivly comfortable in certain situations but I would have managed. Others would not. I would have assumed the trans woman would also be uncomfortable so I'd have gone along with it. Now we know their making us uncomfortable up some's enjoyment.
But now we can't tell who is genuine (we could before but we thought we could). I have a great deal of sympathy for some one with BD. But I don't know who that is. And even if I did I don't know what other women have been through, if the presence of transwomen is causing them pain.
With the massive increase in numbers we are now far more likely to meet a trans person without BD than with. So while I have sympathy I must assume that all transwomen have the potential to be a danger to me or those around me, that they enjoy making me uncomfortable and that being in a female space gives them a thrill.
I have a great deal of sympathy for transwomen. But I won't let them in.