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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Girlguiding Issue coming up Good Morning Britain

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WarmWishes · 25/09/2018 07:28

About to be discussed 7.40am. Suzzanah Reeves & Piers Morgan

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Chocolala · 25/09/2018 11:51

But I specifically signed my DDs up to GG BECAUSE it was single sex. I wanted them to have space to explore all they could do away from boys, because studies are apparently clear that girls are shouted down by and dominated by boys (eg in class and in social groups).

R0wantrees · 25/09/2018 11:55

But I specifically signed my DDs up to GG BECAUSE it was single sex. I wanted them to have space to explore all they could do away from boys, because studies are apparently clear that girls are shouted down by and dominated by boys (eg in class and in social groups).

Girl Guides need to hear from girls and their parents.

This will ultimately be the most significant influence on their decsions.

JessicaJonesJacket · 25/09/2018 11:59

Can anyone clarify which body has asked GG to change their description to mixed sex?
I feel so sad that GG has let it come to this. All they had to do was embody their founding principles and listen to their members who consistently voted to be single sex. They've thrown away their entire legacy for woke points and funding.

Ihaventgottimeforthis · 25/09/2018 12:02

Chocolala that's part of the point.

If they have to actually face up to the sea change in their organisation's mission that they have actually introduced, then they may decide to change their course (or have parents, volunteers & guides make them do it). At the moment they are pretending to be what they are not.

I don't think my daughter cares that much at the moment about Brownies being single sex, she just prefers the activities, but she might grow to value that aspect of it if and when she progresses further. I certainly won't be offering services as a volunteer though.

OvaHere · 25/09/2018 12:04

One thing that stood out on the twitter thread following the GGUK statement was how many TRA's were saying transgirls are female.

I guess it's official that they are now coming after the word female rather than just woman.

I'm incredulous that so many people can just buy into the idea that a teenage boy regardless of pronouns, hairstyles or clothing is female.

RainbowsArePretty · 25/09/2018 12:06

I agree with Piers - unusual!

JessicaJonesJacket · 25/09/2018 12:16

I don't think people do buy into it and I think GG thought they could have this policy change and actually never need to face any of the obvious problems it presents because the percentage of transpeople is tiny and because GG units are small local groups where members would know if other members/leaders were trans and members would switch units accordingly. But that doesn't work when you start attending camps with other units and when parents start to question what information is being withheld from them.
GG needed to be bold and needed to fight for the girls it represents. Instead it capitulated in the worst way.

redshoeblueshoe · 25/09/2018 12:17

Rainbows I agree with Piers and JHB.
I will no longer click a link to the Guardian, but I will for The Mail
Strange times indeed

NothingOnTellyAgain · 25/09/2018 12:21

NRTFT

Dr who is not human!

Back to thread Grin

IdahoJones · 25/09/2018 12:22

So finally the Charity Commission articles and Royal Charter WILL be dragged into this mess, if the GG has been told by ECHR it is now mixed-sex. That's a huge change to its original and established aims.

Oh what a tangled web we weave ...

R0wantrees · 25/09/2018 12:26

I guess it's official that they are now coming after the word female rather than just woman.

THis has been happening for some time.

Prominant and influential TRAs such as Sarah Brown (Stonewall & Lib Dem) Sue Pascoe (Channel 4 & Conservatives) have been stressing that they are female.

I'm sure there will be TRAs in other political parties, postitions of influence who have similarly asserted this.

NothingOnTellyAgain · 25/09/2018 12:27

Jane Fae has said that they spoke to GG after teh policy was changed

Which is a bit of a sleight of hand

Because if (and looks for sure that they are) GG are consulting with Jane Fae then it needs to be on SOMETHING doesn't it, and presumably (??) it's not why extreme porn should be legal, so must be around GG and trans "rights". OBVIOUSLY.

NothingOnTellyAgain · 25/09/2018 12:34

Catching up on thread

"Jane said in 2017 that he had spoken to the Guides twitter.com/JaneFae/status/941108179647320064"

I take it all back. Looks like Jane Fae Extreme Porn Legalisation Advicate and one who has um interesting things to say about women being killed as a result of DV and who thinks that 16/17yo should be avaialbel in porn (including extreme porn?) WAS cosulted by GG when forming their policy around making sure girl guides who go on camps might be confronted with unexpected dick in their sleeping and showering areas, with no warning (or for their parents) and given that they are presented with it as a fait accompli and girls who don't like it are like RACISTS then there's fuck all they can do about it either.

Good glad we've got that straight.

Chocolala · 25/09/2018 12:46

UPDATE:

I’ve emailed GG to ask what the hell is going on, and for clarification as to the single/mixed sex point. And to ask why their policies are so far out of step with every other mixed sex organisation.

I certainly won't be offering services as a volunteer though.. I’ll keep on for now, but this has left a really bad impression for me, and given they seem to be ignoring basic safeguarding practice, that could change. I’ll have a watching brief I think.

hackmum · 25/09/2018 12:53

Maybe Jane Fae is trying to persuade Girl Guides to introduce an extreme porn badge.

NothingOnTellyAgain · 25/09/2018 13:12

RE SHELTER

The LAW says this www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1985/68/part/X/crossheading/definition-of-overcrowding

"The room standard.
(1)The room standard is contravened when the number of persons sleeping in a dwelling and the number of rooms available as sleeping accommodation is such that two persons of opposite sexes who are not living together as husband and wife must sleep in the same room.

SHELTER DESCRIBES THE LAW LIKE THIS england.shelter.org.uk/housing_advice/repairs/check_if_your_home_is_overcrowded_by_law

"1. Room standard
This method is called the room standard. It looks at the number and gender of people who sleep in the same room. Children under the age of 10 are not counted.

A room is considered anywhere you could sleep in, not just bedrooms. It could include a living room, study or dining room.

Your home is overcrowded by law if two people of different genders have no option but to sleep in the same room. This doesn't apply to couples."

So shelter have misrepresented the law.

And so sad to see the fuckers have been at the woodcraft folk as well. This was always mixed sex though so hopefully their guidance on mixed sex away trips is more in line with scouts than guides.

Viago · 25/09/2018 13:16

Maybe JF is campaigning to change the uniform? Out with the polyester jumper, in with the rubber bondage?

arranfan · 25/09/2018 13:17

Re: Shelter

If anyone is on Twitter, Joe Halewood would be someone who could clarify this matter.

twitter.com/SpeyeJoe

speyejoe2.wordpress.com

Ihaventgottimeforthis · 25/09/2018 13:22

Chocolala I'd be interested to know what they said, if you feel happy to share the response if when you get one?

I feel sad for the fact that we've lost a protected and cherished space for girls who want and need that.

Especially with the important discussions they do create in a good unit around self esteem, personal care and sexual health, discrimination, confidence, abuse and everything. It's all subtly changed in a mixed sex environment.

NothingOnTellyAgain · 25/09/2018 13:23

Phew well between work meetings that took a hell of a long time to read.

the news that the EHRC have informed GG that they need to make it clear they are now mixed sex is huge news,

wtf are they going to do? it is their entire raison d'etre

there have been threads on here since god knows when and also people telling them that there is NO basis in law for a single GENDER orgainsation

It is good that they are being made to be clear what they are about now (boys are best and more important than girls)

But, they have, what, destroyed the biggest uk charity working for women and girls in teh UK in the space of what, 2 years?

Is this a matter for pride and cheer? What are they thinking?

Would be great to see / understand this notificaiton from EHRC aside from a single tweet. What the fuck are GG going to say to this?

NothingOnTellyAgain · 25/09/2018 13:24

It also has conseuqences for ALL orgs and places that have a "TWAW TGAG no safeguarding issues" policy.

oooompa · 25/09/2018 13:24

So far on twitter I've been called transphobic and a bigot Hmm

This is why people are hesitant to voice their opinion, for fear of being labelled the above.

I was also told a trans child would never harm my child. Because that person clearly knows every trans child Angry

NothingOnTellyAgain · 25/09/2018 13:27

Or an older child who is not trans but fancies bunking in with teh girls no questions asked.

Some kids are pervy weirdos with few friends at youngish ages...

That young man who volunteered fro charities overseas and sexually abused 100s of children springs to mind, he'd been at it since he was pretty young like 17 or something.

Ereshkigal · 25/09/2018 13:28

Mimmymum is straight up lying.

I thought that was probably the case.

WarmWishes · 25/09/2018 13:30

So now they are officially mixed sex, what is their stance on informing parents their children may be co sleeping with the opposite sex. Has that changed?

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