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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Missing in Action

231 replies

frogintheTyne · 15/09/2018 23:39

Where is the bewilderness?

I miss her!

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CrackpotsArePots · 16/09/2018 11:08

Empress

Yes, it can be hard to change name. I am paranoid though! Continuing along the compound noun theme should give me a fair few options

VickyEadie · 16/09/2018 11:13

This board keeps me sane. Ever since I went down this particular rabbit hole - and as I keep telling people, once you know this stuff, you cannot un-know it or 'let it go' - taking to people on here helps me keep down the anxiety.

EmpressAdultHumanFemale · 16/09/2018 11:25

Grin CrumpetsArePets? SeahorsesAreHorses? SandwichesAreWitches?

womanformallyknownaswoman · 16/09/2018 11:27

Many women have been forced off various platforms by covert targeting under the guise of moderation - they have variously reported numerous instances of mods targeting them by 1:1 messages, by sex blind guidelines as well as being abused by proxy by mob reporting to mods

Datun · 16/09/2018 11:33

Is The Bewilderness on a permanent ban?

Please, anyone who is in touch with her, tell her from me she needs to come back, if she is at all able.

It's no good talking if people can't hear.

I understand the rage and frustration with this mind control we are all being subjected to. But times are changing. Things are happening. And now it's vital to be tactical, rather than ideological.

OhWellItWasNiceKnowingYouAll · 16/09/2018 11:34

Just letting you know that, like bewilderness, I was permanently banned after the Stella Cressy thread, despite the mod on duty agreeing that I didn't actually break any guidelines and despite being here since the dawn of time with not a single suspension, no warnings, no "strikes".

Also no right of reply, no discussion by email, just bang, gone.

I expect this post (and account) will now be reported and deleted.

Some of you may guess who I was/am Grin

Rufustheyawningreindeer · 16/09/2018 11:37

Its a dreadful shame that women are being forced off the boards

Treading on eggshells

Fuckwits misquoting people on twitter

Lying about things that are easily provable...and then the twonks that believe them without checking for themselves!!!

And honestly i like that mumsnet isn't afraid to host the debate and the vast vast majority of the mods seem lovely and make very difficult calls

But deleting 'yawn' 'bless' and avocados!!!

What would help no end is more informative deletion messages

OhWellItWasNiceKnowingYouAll · 16/09/2018 11:37

I have no intention of trying to come back by the way. I don't want to be part of a site that treats supporters as this one does.

R0wantrees · 16/09/2018 11:37

Just letting you know that, like bewilderness, I was permanently banned after the Stella Cressy thread, despite the mod on duty agreeing that I didn't actually break any guidelines and despite being here since the dawn of time with not a single suspension, no warnings, no "strikes".

Also no right of reply, no discussion by email, just bang, gone.

This must be looked into surely?

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 16/09/2018 11:38

And hopefully ive managed a name change

Respect thebewilderness

EmpressAdultHumanFemale · 16/09/2018 11:39

Please, anyone who is in touch with her, tell her from me she needs to come back, if she is at all able. It's no good talking if people can't hear.

Says the woman who talked me about of the first response I had in mind Grin

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 16/09/2018 11:40

Oh and the strikes

Dont get me started on the strikes and the new guidelines

I absolutely appreciate that guidelines change

But it seems like FWR are being held to an incredibly high standard...much higher than the rest of the site

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 16/09/2018 11:41

Some of you may guess who I was/am grin

No im rubbish at guessing Sad

Bang out of order what happened to you

OhWellItWasNiceKnowingYouAll · 16/09/2018 11:41

Why would they R0wan?

I annoyed one of the mods, they banned me. Their site, their rules, they can do as they like. I'm only saying it so people know that posters are disappearing not because they don't care about the argument, but because they aren't allowed to be here.

EmpressAdultHumanFemale · 16/09/2018 11:42

But deleting 'yawn' 'bless' and avocados!!!

Who the fuck is deleting avocados?????

OhWellItWasNiceKnowingYouAll · 16/09/2018 11:43

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Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 16/09/2018 11:44
Grin

Well talk of avocados...

Apparently there were some good recipes!!

Love avocado on toast...that le pain quoitent one is the best recipe

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ZuttZeVootEeVro · 16/09/2018 11:44

despite the mod on duty agreeing that I didn't actually break any guidelines and despite being here since the dawn of time with not a single suspension, no warnings, no "strikes".

You weren't thinking the wrong things again, were you?

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 16/09/2018 11:45

Oh hey mayrz

I thought it was you

AngryAttackKittens · 16/09/2018 11:45

Deleting, not eating! But yes, talking about breakfast being offensive to the goady fuckers whose thread isn't generating the delicious quote for Twitter they were hoping for was a rather eye-rolling moment. If 99% of commenters responding think someone is not in good faith we're usually correct.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 16/09/2018 11:48

Ill be honest

At times its like a very scary horror movie on here

People just disappear

And when you find out why they disappeared its usually for a complete non reason

EmpressAdultHumanFemale · 16/09/2018 11:50

I'm Maryz. I've been here under the same name for almost 18 years.

And when you get banned, we know things are seriously fucked up.

R0wantrees · 16/09/2018 11:52

18 years and despite 'the mod on duty agreeing that I didn't actually break any guidelines and despite being here since the dawn of time with not a single suspension, no warnings, no "strikes",' banned?

This is appalling.

I have learned so so much from the wisdom of women on this board.

It is a travesty that in the last few months so many have been forced to leave.

CrackpotsArePots · 16/09/2018 11:54

MaryZoe. I was on that thread; banned for a week. Massive inconsistency there x

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