I think most people on this board are actually pro trans-people. Just anti trans-activists - the ones who demand open access to everything female in a very aggressive manner.
Quite frankly, the burden of proof is on the people who wish to change the systems that safeguard women and girls.
When you convince me that your system - which relies purely on an internal declaration of identity that by your own definition is fluid - is better than what we have now, then I will agree to accept self-ID.
But we are nowhere near that, and in fact the more I think about it, the more I learn about trans activism, the less I think it's a good idea.
Bring back the transsexuals who just wanted to live quiet lives, and let's talk about the most difficult subjects (prisons/refuges/health care/etc).
Quite frankly, I've had enough of grown trans/non-binary males causing a huge fuss and acting in a threatening way because they find being asked to use the men's changing room a gross human rights violation... I mean, I am sorry about their hurt feelings, but... Where is the perspective and common sense here?
Is our society so without trouble that complaining about sensible single-sex policies - put in place to protect women and girls - is now the kind of "political activism" that gets lauded by the media?
Personally I have no problem with sharing certain spaces with transsexuals (toilets being an obvious one that I don't really care too much about). But there is an enormous conceptual difference to saying we should think carefully about exceptions to our rules of single-sex facilities, and saying we should rid ourselves of any rule-book altogether.