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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Who have we lost?

137 replies

Pratchet · 14/06/2018 21:01

I hope uterati comes back. I have seen all the great women today plus lots of new ones.

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tryingtodateagain · 14/06/2018 21:05

Unless you all donate to my PayPal - I'm flouncing

I've overspent you see and need your money

I'm drinking my concerns away in a pub atm. I can also give you the number to buy me drinks 🍹

Who have we lost?
spontaneousgiventime · 14/06/2018 21:05

Never in a million years would I claim to be great, I am very seriously considering if I can stay in a place where women are silenced. I doubt I can.

Pratchet · 14/06/2018 21:10

But you are tremendous! Don't go

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Prawnofthepatriarchy · 14/06/2018 21:10

I'm still here, though for how long I don't know.

spontaneousgiventime · 14/06/2018 21:11

I don't see how women who want to discuss trans issues and the GRA can stay here. Honestly!

spontaneousgiventime · 14/06/2018 21:11

Fuck; I said women. - BANNED!

PermissionToSpeakSir · 14/06/2018 21:12

Just thought I'd link to the current thread about the moderation policy www.mumsnet.com/Talk/site_stuff/a3277316-Mumsnet-moderation-of-trans-rights-and-gender-critical-issues-II?msgid=78662138#78662138

ChickenMe · 14/06/2018 21:50

Bloody Madigan - that "hi hi" thing really annoys me. It's what Madigan thinks women do.

Datedandold · 14/06/2018 21:54

Waybuloos say ‘hi, hi’

dolorsit · 14/06/2018 22:00

Please don't leave.

I have seen this happen elsewhere where there is a subsection for feminists amongst a more generalised board.

The feminists are held to a higher standard yet subject to goading. Eventually the feminists lose their temper and kick off. The mods come down hard on the feminists and pander to the goaders. Majority of Feminists piss off elsewhere, the "let's be nice to everyone" feminists remain with the goaders. The feminist section becomes a shell and 12 months later it's only the goaders who then point out how crap feminism is.

Normally I'd say go for it. But we know that this is read by lurkers. It's read by the media.

If you do go, which I don't blame you - any chance of organising a tag team?

PunkrockerGirl59 · 14/06/2018 22:04

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Pratchet · 14/06/2018 22:26

Naybe we can have a a daily register

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Pratchet · 14/06/2018 22:28

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3278360-Daily-register?watched=1

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Onlyinanemergency · 14/06/2018 22:29

I would just like to speak on behalf of the lurkers. I've been skulking round here quietly for months and have had my eyes opened by so many eloquent and intelligent women. I've been given the words to go out and have these discussions with family and friends in real life and I could not have done that without you all behind me. Please, stay for the lurkers!

HotRocker · 14/06/2018 22:48

Seconded Only
You’re giving me the language to talk to people, speak my mind. MN may be able to restrict language on here but they can’t in real life. The more I learn, the more I speak, and the more I speak, the more others learn from me. You’ve helped me understand my thoughts, you’ve teaching me nuance, you’re giving me knowledge, and knowledge is Power.

This space won’t be ours unless we fight for it.

SirVixofVixHall · 14/06/2018 22:51

Uterati has gone ? ?

birdsdestiny · 14/06/2018 22:53

I have said this elsewhere but MN has a reach unlike any other site that has been mentioned. Stay if possible.

spontaneousgiventime · 14/06/2018 22:53

I've joined a forum, I can't see me staying here. It's lost all appeal with appeasement.

skyhighliver · 14/06/2018 22:56

Another lurker here. I don't join in because so many women more eloquent than myself have already said all I wanted to say.
It would be a real shame to lose what we've got here. Maybe we need a mass de-lurk just to show how many of us there are that are listening and spreading the word in real life.

Onlyinanemergency · 14/06/2018 23:02

I definitely think a de-lurking is in order!

barnacharmer · 14/06/2018 23:06

@skyhighliver has just said exactly what I would have said if I got here first

busyboysmum · 14/06/2018 23:12

I'm not going anywhere. I have every confidence that this too shall pass.

Pratchet · 15/06/2018 00:16

Me too busy.

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thebewilderness · 15/06/2018 02:16

I am unsure of what I can do.
I have been silenced, demonized, lied about, and given a strike.
If I am very good and polite to the verbal abusers who come here every day to harass women the mods will let me stay, or so they say.
I find this to be incredibly hurtful. Kinda surprised by that as this is not the first Feminist forum I have seen deeply damaged or destroyed.

Pratchet · 15/06/2018 02:18

Don't go, you haven't been silenced! We love you.

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