NatLuc Not offended at all. Always interested to read another perspective in this debate, especially one informed by personal experience.
IMHO the trouble is that the vast majority of kids desist, but not all. We're therefore actually discussing where the medical profession should exercise its discretion - do we harm 80% by putting them all on an early intervention path or do we harm 20% by delaying. In all other areas of medicine, the potential risk of a negative outcome to the vast majority of a patient cohort outweighs the potential benefit to a minority.
As in other areas of medicine, I am therefore of the firm opinion that we should prioritise the avoidance of iatrogenic harm to the desisters. As we know from a large number of studies, even under the stricter criteria for GD, medical professionals continue to be unable to accurately predict who will desist - a considerable number of kids with the severest GD desist, some with mild GD get worse as they go on and persist into adulthood.
Your argument for better support is worthy of closer consideration, especially within a robust debate about all of the consequences of treatment approaches that would touch on those points you raise. Prioritising the avoidance of harm to the majority does not mean abandoning the minority to their fate after all. Although if TRAs succeed in convincing the government that GD is not a medical condition I worry it will go the other way to even less publicly financed support...
Also, the enthusiasm with which those youths have been greeted who develop GD (or more accurately ROGD) in mid-to-late puberty is problematic in this regard. Because we do know from decades worth of research that while we cannot predict persisters/desisters within the younger cohorts, those who persist into adolescence are almost always transsexual as adults. Those are valuable, valid stats professionals can base their decisions on.
Even if ROGD as suspected turns out to be caused mainly by social contagion, it will have muddied the waters as for the stats on the desistance rates in adolescence. I'd love to know what you think of this phenomenon? (It's not caused by greater acceptance or visibility after all, as that would have affected boys and girls equally.)