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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

A bare breast on a t-shirt at a conference

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poopsqueak · 18/05/2018 21:18

I was at a conference yesterday with many speakers.

The audience was of a digital nature.

One speaker came on stage with a t-shirt with a woman with a bare breast on (faded and 'artsy') and I didn't think much of it. He was 35, male and talking about an organisation he had founded. The talk was very interesting.

When the next speaker started the conference organiser came on stage and apologised for the t-shirt of the previous speaker and said he hadn't seen it prior to the speaker going on stage and mentioned a 'Twitter incident'

When the next speaker started half the audience were on their phones seeing what the 'incident' was. I found this very rude to the speaker who was speaking while lots of people were looking at their phones.

Turns out a person had left in the prior speaker posting on Twitter saying that they were 'shaking with anger' at the t-shirt and 'crying in the toilet'. They used the official conference hash so people could see. People began discussing and the person who was upset sent a lot of tweets about it.

I'm really in two minds about this. I don't think the t-shirt was great, but the guy said he was jet lagged and had come straight from the plane so maybe hadn't changed. I feel torn between the sides of a speaker wearing a sexualised t shirt on stage and what I see as a another person who I think has had gross overreaction that has cause upset for the conference runners.

I feel like the guy who ran the conference apologised as soon as he could and did what needed.

To further confuse me, the person who was upset then accosted the guy with the shirt outside and they had words. The person then tweeted that they had felt victimised by the shirt wearers language.

Really I just want some others perspectives on this incident as I am I two minds. I am all for (and talk actions to ensure) the progression of women in tech, but feel the slightly hysterical reaction to a t-shirt mire the message? What do you think?

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thebewilderness · 22/05/2018 22:16

I mean, at this point, snore. We've discussed round and round and it's boring now.

I have been wrong on the internet before and know how it feels. It would be best for you personally to hide the thread.

Most of us who are older are perfectly aware that women with internalized misogyny are always preferred by corporations and media alike to represent "women's interests". Witness the women's officers in Labour.
Careless thoughtless casual misogyny is part of the hostile environment women live in. Not thinking about it is a fairly common choice.

SonicVersusGynaephobia · 22/05/2018 23:16

Ah shame, I thought OP would graciously come through in the end, once she'd realised he was a bellend on other occasions too.

Nae luck.

poopsqueak · 22/05/2018 23:23

No thanks, I'm going continue bellending away.

In all seriousness though I did learn the origins of the word hysteria (very interesting) and that others have different opinions to me. And that's fine.

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poopsqueak · 22/05/2018 23:24

Ah I thought you said 'she' was a bellend. We can all be bellends tbf.

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thebewilderness · 22/05/2018 23:27

Thanks for the warning, OP.

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