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Repeal the 8th - have we talked about Ireland's 'abortion war?'

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DorothyGarrod · 14/05/2018 10:35

Nine women A DAY travel to the UK a day to access an abortion. I am vehemently pro-choice and I'm really hoping the law is changed as a result of the referendum in Ireland later this month. Even women who have been raped are not allowed abortions in Ireland!

I haven't seen much discussion of this on here, but perhaps I missed it when I was writing to my MP about changes to the GRC Wink but I found this Standard Issue podcast which explained the issue to me and it is well worth a listen:

Part One: www.acast.com/standardissuespodcast/simep109doc1-part1-repealingtheeighth?autoplay

Part Two: www.acast.com/standardissuespodcast/simep110doc1part2-repealingthe8th

I'm scared to feel hopeful about the outcome of a referendum though...

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Somersetlady · 19/05/2018 07:23

Abortion is murder is the worst poster in our village which only has no posters.

Repeal the 8th - have we talked about Ireland's 'abortion war?'
Repeal the 8th - have we talked about Ireland's 'abortion war?'
Repeal the 8th - have we talked about Ireland's 'abortion war?'
YetAnotherSpartacus · 19/05/2018 12:13

I don't live in Ireland, but I am sad that we are not doing enough to support women in Ireland in this referendum.

I am bitter that we are fighting a defensive war to keep dearly held rights instead of an offensive war to claim new ones.

Cwenthryth · 19/05/2018 13:50

I am sad that we are not doing enough to support women in Ireland in this referendum.

What else do you suggest we do, YetAnother? Do you have any links to actions we could take etc?

YetAnotherSpartacus · 19/05/2018 13:52

No. But if some were posted I'd happily support them.

Cwenthryth · 19/05/2018 14:19

I’m sure we all would, the point is we don’t know what we can do! Not that we ‘aren’t doing enough’, sorry, I felt that sounded a little pejorative.

Maryz · 19/05/2018 16:13

I've just seen this thread. I too am in Ireland, and like many on here am pretty sure it's going to fail Sad. My road, like many, is full of "no" posters - all the yes ones have been removed at night.

I know there are many youngsters flying home to vote, and many more have registered specifically to vote, but it's the undecided middle who will influence the way this will go. And unfortunately the undecided middle may well go for "I don't know what to do so I'll vote to leave it as it is".

Tempting as it might be, I think for the "yes" side to push those undecideds too hard over the next week would be a mistake. I think there are many who are genuinely struggling with their own consciences who may vote yes in the end, but if they feel attacked or backed into a corner may not want to be pushed, especially by those they see as "outsiders" - people not in Ireland who do not understand the way this issue has been traditionally seen.

As someone said above, no amount of anger and namecalling on social media will force an undecided person to vote yes. Polite persuasion, while harder to perform, is less likely to get people's backs up.

Cwenthryth · 19/05/2018 16:39

Is there no postal voting, why are people having to fly to vote?

Maryz · 19/05/2018 16:46

No postal vote apart from special circumstances (disability, prison, some students but only if in the country, a few occupations).

Loads of youngsters travelled home to vote in the same sex marriage referendum; sadly this one doesn't seem to have been so far-reaching though I do know individuals making heroic efforts to come home.

Unfortunately I also know of organisations making heroic efforts to transport the entire over-70 population to their local polling booth too [cynical]

TheGrumpySquirrel · 19/05/2018 17:04

I just don't understand how they can use the "equal right to life" wording in the 8th amendment to allow women like that poor Savita (?) lady to just die?! Because there was a heartbeat of a baby who would die anyway?! It's treating women as sub human and I'm beyond disgusted with all of the No voters.

TheGrumpySquirrel · 19/05/2018 17:05

Obviously it isn't equal right to life. It's women coming last, seen as breeding cattle.

MrsHathaway · 19/05/2018 17:23

Sometimes when a particular result is predicted, that prediction allows its supporters to stay at home and spurs the opposite side to go out and vote. Isn't that what happened re Brexit, enough to nudge Leave over the line?

So yeah DEFINITELY NO CHANCE REPEAL WILL WIN SO THOSE FIRMLY PRO LIFE HAVE NO NEED TO BOTHER VOTING.

TheVeryThing · 19/05/2018 17:25

I've been canvassing over the last few weeks and I'm still (very cautiously) optimistic that it will pass. Don't be fooled by the number of posters for No, they have alienated more people than they have persuaded.
All we can do is keep knocking on doors and politely outlining the case for yes to the undecided voters. That's what I will be doing most evenings next week.
If you're in Ireland, then consider joining your local canvassing group, it's not too late. For anyone outside of Ireland who wants to help, the abroad for yes facebook page still has people looking for funding to travel home to vote.

Cwenthryth · 20/05/2018 07:26

Thanks, TheVeryThing, and solidarity, keep going, you’re doing amazingly. You have so many people’s support, and belief that you (as in the repeal campaign) can do this.

ACTION Those of us able to donate funds Abroad for Yes Facebook group]] (closed group; apply to join) to try and connect with someone who may be struggling to afford to fly back to vote.

Also raise awareness for Irish students in the UK there are NUS bursaries available to travel back to vote.

I feel less despondent now there are concrete things we can do. There is of course value in getting on social media and liking, sharing, supporting those in Ireland fighting for repeal is a valuable thing to do - I know myself that canvassing and campaigning can be emotionally exhausting and somewhat soul destroying, you really need to believe that what you’re doing WILL have an impact.

SonicVersusGynaephobia · 20/05/2018 08:04

I'm really surprised to hear that people are worried that it won't be a Yes vote. Sad I'm not in Ireland, so am just campaigning on twitter and amplifying the pro-choice voice to counter some of the awful No stuff (which I've mostly seen coming from men).

I suppose this is the problem with echo chambers; I didn't know it was so precarious. I'm gutted.

Hopefully knowing it's not looking so good for Yes will spur more people out to vote. Less complacency.

SonicVersusGynaephobia · 20/05/2018 08:19

Can someone in Ireland who knows more about this please explain how there are consultant obstetricians claiming no woman has ever died or been harmed by the 8th, and it has not ever hindered the care they give women (and therefore the 8th should be kept), when there is the Savita case, the Miss P case, and a huge number of other women sharing stories about becoming seriously ill as a result of, not just refusal to terminate, but also to provide other (semi-unrelated) medical treatment that they desperately need like cancer treatments/ops, removal of large cysts that are left to turn gangrene, etc in case it might harm the baby (even though it's very low risk)?

How are they allowed to lie? And are they getting called out on it?

Cwenthryth · 20/05/2018 08:39

Sonic not in Ireland and I don’t know, but where have these consultants claimed this? Clearly this should be challenged.

@InHerIrishShoes is an eye-opening Twitter feed, sharing women’s experiences in the current system.

CoteDAzur · 20/05/2018 08:48

"This presumably refers back to the "bodily autonomy argument" ? If so , then an anti- abortion stance would be that it is irrelevant in the case of abortion. The anti-abortion stance is predicated on the unique biological fact that a pregnant woman is responsibile for another life... In most cases, if left in utero the embryo will grow to be another human."

You don't get it and neither does Ben Shapiro if that's his argument.

Fetus is not a person but even if it was, it can't use your body to stay alive without your consent. Nobody can even force you to accommodate someone in your body and let him live off your blood, even if he will die otherwise. Nobody can even force you to donate blood to save someone's life.

Yes, there is something called bodily autonomy and it doesn't get put on hold when another person's life in danger.

TheVeryThing · 20/05/2018 08:59

I think the medics on the no side are interpreting information very differently to most. They claim that Savita’s sepsis should have been identified earlier and treated so the eighth amendment wasn’t the cause, but medical mismanagement.
The law currently requires that a woman’s life must at pretty much immediate and direct risk before a termination can be carried out & they are fine with that.
They do not care where a woman’s health is compromised.
They are being called on it but the No side are happy to exploit the differences in interpretation between medical professionals & the ordinary person’s difficultly in figuring out the truth.
Many people will choose to believe whatever they wish.

LassWiADelicateAir · 20/05/2018 09:07

You don't get it and neither does Ben Shapiro if that's his argument

Whether I "get it" or not is 100% irrelevant given that I am pro choice (and have said so on this thread)

Whether people like Ben Shapiro "get it" is also irrelevant as they don't agree with your concept of bodily autonomy when , as they see it , there are 2 lives to consider and neither is at risk.

The doctors on the Irish television show who said they will be voting No don't "get it" They were talking about their responsibility to both their patients- meaning the woman and whatever you want to call what is gestating inside her.

SonicVersusGynaephobia · 20/05/2018 09:18

Thanks Very.

I don't like that doctors are being slippery with the issue on this when it's something as fundamental as women dying.

TheVeryThing · 20/05/2018 09:25

Neither life is at immediate risk lass but treatment is withheld from women with medical conditions if it is incompatible with pregnancy.
These doctors are morally opposed to abortion and are not speaking from an unbiased, purely professional perspective. The doctors on the other side (and there are 1300 of these, against 200 or so on the no side) have no moral position, as there is no ideological position which advocates for abortion.

Similarly, the legal professionals who are involved in campaigning for no are doing so because of their moral beliefs, their professional opinion is secondary.

Maryz · 20/05/2018 09:31

This is not a popular view and I'll probably be roasted for saying it here (I have before), but the difficulty with the case of Savita Halappanavar is that, no matter how many times people say it, and how many people believe it, it wasn't Irish law that caused her to die, it was (a) the (wrong) interpretation of that law and (b) utterly appalling and neglectful medical treatment.

The hospital completely missed the symptoms of sepsis, there were unacceptable delays with her test results, and as a patient she was ignored. I suspect she was ignored by medical staff because she was pregnant, but that is no excuse for the lack of medical care. Since she died the entire protocol around sepsis has been changed, in every hospital in the country.

She should have been treated earlier. Under Irish law she could have, and indeed should have, received appropriate treatment for her illness (sepsis) - including removal of foetal tissue as the source of the infection - and that treatment would most likely have saved her life.

Under Irish law women have frequently been treated even if that treatment caused the incidental death of the foetus. What hasn't been legal is the deliberate "killing" of the foetus. To many Irish doctors there is a massive difference, even if the end result (death of the foetus) is the same.

There are doctors here concerned that if this referendum goes through they and other medical staff will be forced to carry out abortions against their wishes. Many of them want some sort of protection for staff who don't want to be involved on conscientious grounds.

I don't happen to agree with many of their statements, but I do believe they have some valid concerns and should, like everyone else, be listened to. I hate the fact that this debate is so polarised. I am pro-choice, absolutely, but I also believe that forcing medical staff to perform treatments that they believe is morally wrong isn't an acceptable way to do this.

For this referendum to go through, I think it's important that the "yes" side don't dismiss concerns that are relevant; again the need is to appeal to the middle-ground undecided. They were the ones blocking change in the past, they are the ones who will decide the outcome on Friday.

MrsHathaway · 20/05/2018 10:03

I've been following the stories of women affected by the Eighth Amendment and at first I was mildly miffed that they seemed to be showing mainly the extreme cases. I've since realised they're doing so to convince those wavering, rather than targeting their echo chamber.

Anyway, I found [CW] this story particularly interesting because a woman twice experienced the heartbreak of finding out her unborn babies had conditions incompatible with life, but was allowed to terminate only one of those times. The story of the other time is harrowing so please be warned before clicking through.

DrMantisToboggan · 20/05/2018 10:07

Maryz there is no question of medical staff being forced to perform treatments they disagree with. The government have made it clear that the proposed legislation will make explicit allowance for conscientious objection, similar to the Protection of Life in Pregnancy Act. This is misinformation peddled by the No side.

DrMantisToboggan · 20/05/2018 10:09

And one of the anti-choice GPs on the Claire Byrne debate was very clear that he wasn’t happy with conscientious objection as it is commonly understood - he wanted to be able to refuse to treat a woman for termination of pregnancy AND refuse to refer her to someone who would.

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