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Shon Faye hassling mumsnet

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SunsetBeetch · 02/05/2018 13:59

twitter.com/shonfaye/status/991568961513893888?s=19

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OohMavis · 02/05/2018 14:21

It can't be nice to read threads about yourself on forums. I'd hate it.

But I guess this is a consequence of going full-on battle mode on social media.

Probably better all round to rise above.

AssignedPuuurfectAtBirth · 02/05/2018 14:21

Yes Luna. They wouldn't dare challenge men.

Shon Faye is trying to target MN's advertisers. It does seem a little erm, misguided perhaps, given that the demographic that MN's advertisers are interested in do tend to be the women who read mumsnet... Funnily enough.

0phelia · 02/05/2018 14:21

Only males can be Transgender women.

This is a test

Raven88 · 02/05/2018 14:22

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Ellenripleysalienbaby · 02/05/2018 14:23

Speaking of 'enjoying erasure' I always think that this version of the Xmas song 'Gaudete' is so underrated.....

TrumpTrump · 02/05/2018 14:23

Hi Shon!

May I ask, what topics is it okay for us ladies to discuss? Kittens, babies, nail polish? It would be handy if you could provide a list so that we know where we stand? I don't want to get told off!

SwearyG · 02/05/2018 14:24

I’m only here for the deletion message.

Shon, sweetie, I’m sure your requests for MNers to stop misgendering you would be better heard if you hadn’t block most of us.

OvaHere · 02/05/2018 14:25

Is it just MN that TRAs are targeting? I've seen some awful actual transphobia on male dominated forums but never see criticism of them. Anyone would think this was about silencing women.

It is. Have you ever read the Kiwi Farms forum? Ever seen a twitter post about them? It's a massive majority male forum with threads going on for 100s of pages. Far far worse is said there than here.

KatherinaMinola · 02/05/2018 14:26

Anyone would think this was about silencing women.

That would be erasure of the female, wouldn't it? Which is what Shon advocates, if I've understood correctly.

KatherinaMinola · 02/05/2018 14:27

Or was it erasure of lesbians only?

Maybe Shon could clarify whether it's a subset of female experience that needs to be erased, or the whole lot?

OohMavis · 02/05/2018 14:28

Ladies are supposed to be nice though. It's just about acceptable for women to hold political views, let alone ones that drift from the mainstream.

Men can do wtf they want. Tis known.

noeffingidea · 02/05/2018 14:28

Women of FWR, enjoy your erasure m.youtube.com/watch?v=L-d4J3YUQmU

KatherinaMinola · 02/05/2018 14:29

Thanks, noeffing, I'm really enjoying that .

LangCleg · 02/05/2018 14:31

Are we allowed to yawn today? Wink

Dancingleopard · 02/05/2018 14:33

Wow stamping foot much ???

Veruca Salt eat your heart out!

Dancingleopard · 02/05/2018 14:34

noe brilliant Grin

Elletorro · 02/05/2018 14:36

I firmly believe trans rights are human rights

And so too are women’s rights.

Equality for both of us involves levelling the playing field so that neither of us is disadvantaged by our identities.

Both transgender people and women experience hostile environments. The problem is when we each of us contribute to the other’s oppression.

We could go round in circles with this and have done for some time.

How to resolve this? Is there common ground?

Whilst we talk about conflicts of rights it helps if we can use biologically correct pronouns or everything becomes muddled and confusing. But if we are picking apart one person’s opinion etc it can easily come across as hostile, sneering and threatening. Context really is all

noeffingidea · 02/05/2018 14:36

More erasure for us women to enjoy! m.youtube.com/watch?v=RbLskFa2Ws0

AssignedPuuurfectAtBirth · 02/05/2018 14:38

Ok, so as evidence that they are having a targetted campaign against mumsnet and free speech, they have set up a dedicated twitter account to do it. Please report this account to twitter

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NotTerfNorCis · 02/05/2018 14:38

Again? Cut it out, man.

OhWhatFuckeryIsThisNow · 02/05/2018 14:39

Who?

RunRabbitRunRabbit · 02/05/2018 14:41

I looked at the tweet. It appears that Shon's complaint is that some people use the wrong pronouns when talking about her. This is the transphobia. That's it.

I hope Shon never comes up against real transphobia. I assume Shon hasn't or she wouldn't be trawling the internet pronoun chasing. Surely she'd be tackling actual transphobia. Like how some men make it unsafe for transwomen to use male spaces. She's not putting effort into reddit, piston heads and all those places to educate men about not abusing transwomen. She's here chasing pronouns.

Of course maybe Shon's all over the genuinely transphobic internet too. There's a lot of it to cover. So as a way of helping, I'll call Shon a she so she can avoid getting distracted by anonymous women who use he to refer to people who have/used to have a penis when they are discussing the impact on women and girls of penis people having access to women's spaces.

Mamaryllis · 02/05/2018 14:41

Yawning is terribly non-U. It's a bit like sitting in a really boring lecture in the front row. You have to pretend that every ounce of your being is in an electrified state and you are hanging on every word they are saying. Rather than find their self-absorption a little tedious. As someone far more succinct than I am put it, if being trans is the most interesting thing about you, you need to get out more.
Life isn't all about choosing to perform gender. Try something else for a day or two, Shon love. you can't erase reality.

AssignedPuuurfectAtBirth · 02/05/2018 14:41

Funnily enough, my kids eat a lot of fish fingers

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PermissionToSpeakSir · 02/05/2018 14:41

Why the fuck does SF feel entitled to tell @MNHQ how to moderate?