"My therapist and I had a conversation (in September 2015) in which I first say “I think I am transgender”. I started calling myself (in 2015) "Genderqueer".
"I can be called he/she/they: to me, it doesn’t change the fact I’m not a man. I never was. I was not born into the wrong body. I was born into the wrong story’."
" I wonder if it is an outrage that I dare to presume that my pain is the same as that of transwomen, of cis women, of trans people of colour. But my pain isn’t their pain and my identity is not their identity"
"I now realise my lack of maleness doesn’t have to take the form as someone else’s (or that of womanhood or any recognisable shape at all) but merely gives me further reason to respect them.
"My name is Seán and I can be called he/she/they: to me, it doesn’t change the fact I’m not a man. I never was. I was not born into the wrong body. I was born into the wrong story. Or rather, it was wrong I was born into this kind of story at all."
All quotes from www.dazeddigital.com/artsandculture/article/26572/1/i-have-never-been-and-never-will-be-a-man 21 September 2015