This was very interesting. I thought Cathy Newman interviewed Lily really well - letting her speak which, in my opinion, is the best way to let someone tie themselves up in knots.
I have many thoughts on this, but the one that struck me most of all is about Lily's appearance. She's not very feminine, is she? Most transwomen seem to be all about the appearance and the overtly feminine dress, and the make-up etc.
As far as I could tell, Lily wasn't wearing make-up, she'd not even plucked her eyebrows, she wasn't dressed in particularly feminine clothes. I couldn't care less what women or transwomen wear but I just thought it was interesting.
I work in the media, and generally speaking when a female guest is asked to go on a TV show (disclaimer here in that I'm not sure if it happens on the news but it definitely does on shows like Lorraine, or This Morning), they send a photo of themselves to the researcher (before they say yes or no), and they are also talked through what to wear. My boss, who often does TV appearances, has never been asked to do this. He has, occasionally, been asked what he's wearing (if it's a last-minute appearance) and then been asked to change the colour of his shirt but that's as far as it goes for men. I wonder if any of this happened for Lily?