If she had then said that although she was a trans woman, she wanted to fight for the needs of every woman, and to be the voice that represents the true issues faced by women, would you feel differently?
I would think that I would mentally give Lily a three month period and see if Lily stuck to her words.
In that three months, if Lily actually worked on with women's groups and appeared in interviews talking about issues and coming up with ideas then I would not feel as I do now about Lily.
No-one can have experience of all women's issues but I would like to think that a good women's officer would do some research, find out the five most urgent women's issues and then start to make connections with other people who had more experience in that area.
For example, say an issue was identified that was, how hard it is for a woman to escape DV when she is financially dependent.
First of all, you could research how a woman currently deals with that situation.
What happens to the women who don't leave and stay living with DV?
Talk to women who have escaped DV and ask them what helped them and what could make the process easier.
Talk to people like the police and social services to get their input.
Find a scheme, maybe a refuge, that works well and see if that could be rolled out nationwide.
Consider what happens to the woman and her children (if she has them) after the initial crisis period. I don't know but I assume that even once you have left and gone into a refuge there is still a lot of work to be done to set you up for the rest of your life.
Sorry, I have gone on a bit there.
So, if Lily genuinely dealt with even just two issues thoroughly and got really involved in making things better for women then I would not be appalled that Lily is a women's officer.
I appreciate that Lily would want to discuss and work on the rights of trans-women as well and I think that in the first few months Lily should put these issues on the back burner.
Once I had seen that Lily was working for all women and not trans-women, then I would let Lily's work speak for itself.
Also I think that Lily could do some amazing work for women, maybe two major projects and then Lily could start on a project for trans-women.