FloraFox
Excellent points.
If man is AGP, surgery can be desirable as it is the ultimate goal, in as much as they can have sex ‘as a woman’. Despite them remaining attracted to women, a man is used as a sort of prop for them to feel as much like a woman as they can.
Do you remember Bruce Jenner, an obviously heterosexual man, saying he might have a relationship with a man now? That’s the fetish in action.
Actually experiencing sexual pleasure in the same way that a woman does, is obviously not possible, but neither might it be the actual goal.
There is an enormous amount of sex involved in all this. It’s driven by men, so it’s unsurprising.
I think the mistake is to think that men who want to be women are viewing sex in the same way that women do.
Several times I have read transwomen talking about it, and there is a central theme. Equating every single thing they think and feel to be the same as a natal woman. It’s less about what they’re actually feeling (i.e. the sensation) and more about telling each other that’s what real women feel all the time.