'Being made to think different thoughts is not the same as being harmed'
My first response was that no-one can make you think different thoughts. In a reasoned debate, views are aired, it is up to you what you pick up, what you agree with, what you disagree with. That is healthy debate. Not everyone thinks the same, nor should they be made to.
My second thought is that of course people can be made to think different thoughts, it is the essence of coercive control and psychological abuse. It is when a dominant person or group starts misusing language, re-writing history or altering meaning to make you start to doubt your reality.
I have not read the article yet, but I don't think women are the dominant group shaping the language, discourse or thoughts.