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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Cis labels

261 replies

sooperdooper · 24/04/2017 21:57

I'm kind of new to reaching 'Peak Trans' and I had this thought...

So if, as the trans lobby keeps repeating 'trans women are women', why would they need to call biological women 'cis'?

If they really are female there would be no need for a distinction because by simply 'identifying' as female they would be

So they've made the distinction themselves by labelling biological women cis, doesn't that make the whole discussion about 'trans women being women' invalid by their own admission?

Sorry if this is totally obvious but I'm trying to work through my own thoughts on this

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user1487175389 · 27/04/2017 22:33

I'm a woman. I have a womb and Xx chromosomes and all the other female reproductive parts. It's not normally how I would choose to introduce myself to a bunch of strangers, but the way things are going, it might become necessary. - I wonder if The Storybots could sing a song about me?

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 27/04/2017 23:25

Thank you, @venusinscorpio. Thanks

RogueBiscuit · 27/04/2017 23:53

It is bullying. I've said it before, it feels like being in an abusive relationship felt. That gaslighting and emotional blackmail

I really agree with this.

Hont1986 · 28/04/2017 10:54

Doesn't bother me Confused

I'm not gay, I'm straight
I'm not black, I'm white
I'm not trans, I'm cis

etc.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 28/04/2017 11:14

I absolutely respect that, @Hont1986. But it does bother me. Why don't my feelings matter?

I am expected to respect others when they say that they identify as a woman, not a man - and I am happy to do so - so why do I not deserve the same respect when I say that I identify as a woman, not a ciswoman?

Hont1986 · 28/04/2017 11:44

But isn't a ciswoman a woman? It's just an adjective to distinguish someone as a subset of the overall classification of 'women'? As in tall woman, black woman, and so on.

Pansiesandredrosesandmarigolds · 28/04/2017 11:47

FWIW Soros is a favourite target for the alt right (ie neo-nazi) pests that proliferate on twitter - I'd check very carefully before believing internet criticism of him. Very carefully. It's a bit like 'Rothschild'. See that name and you know that there's a 99% chance that it's mad antisemites spreading shit.

As for the currency manipulation example - the UK was spending a fortune to damage its own economy by keeping its currency artificially high, probably because it had become a sign of national virility. Cockwavingas economic policy. Paul Krugman had a nice line that we should put a statue up to him in Parliament Square for forcing us to stop being stupid.

Datun · 28/04/2017 11:48

Hont1986

I don't think it is. Woman isn't an identity, neither is it a description of a woman who wants to express herself using one of the 56 gender descriptors.

The 'cis' is redundant.

The word woman isn't based around how they want to see themself. It's a biological description.

Pansiesandredrosesandmarigolds · 28/04/2017 11:49

Hont1986 - I agree, but the argument here is that transwomen aren't a subset of women but mentally ill men. Therefore 'cis' is unnecessary and indeed offensive because it implies that there are women who aren't 'cis'. Someone who thought gays were perverts would probably say the same about 'straight'.

Hont1986 · 28/04/2017 11:51

I would use 'female' as the purely biological description, but 'woman' has some gender/cultural connotations with it.

FlyingSquid · 28/04/2017 11:54

What do you mean by 'cis', Hont?

If it's 'biological women who prefer to be called 'she'', I'm with you.

If it's 'biological women who are stereotypically feminine/wear skirts/are ok with being discriminated against/don't mind being catcalled/want to take a paycut/believe in girlbrain/have an inner sense of their own gender whatever the fuck that is', no thanks.

Hont1986 · 28/04/2017 11:58

The first one - I thought that was the only version to be honest. I've never seen cis used to mean girly/feminine/etc.

FlyingSquid · 28/04/2017 12:01

Well, I'd be OK with 'women-calling-themselves-she' as cis, 'men-calling-themselves-she' as a definition of trans (and vice versa for transmen), all with no extra connotations, but it seems to have become far wider and woollier than than, and involve this mysterious, unknowable inner being, or 'living/acting/thinking like a woman' and all the rest of that 1950s bollocks, hence the objection to cissiness.

user1487175389 · 28/04/2017 12:01

It doesn't matter what the connotations of the word 'woman' are: the definition is clear.

FlyingSquid · 28/04/2017 12:02

Anyway, I'm off to research some concrete.

user1487175389 · 28/04/2017 12:03

I also dislike the sound of the prefix 'cis'. It's very close to 'sissy' or the sound of a cat hissing. I doubt this is unintentional.

FlyingSquid · 28/04/2017 12:04

I've just realised that my definition would make more sense if 'transman' was a male-calling-themselves-she', rather than 'transwoman'. Damn. D'you think we can persuade people that they'd like to change the terminology they use for themselves, because I said so?

If not, why not?

NotCarylChurchill · 28/04/2017 12:11

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FirstShinyRobe · 28/04/2017 12:23

How does your radical feminism define women in order to examine structural oppression against them due to biology, NotCarylChurchill?

Hont1986 · 28/04/2017 12:23

Cis- and trans- are terms from chemistry, I believe. Nothing to do with cat hissing.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 28/04/2017 12:29

@Hont1986 - I don't see myself as part of a subset of women - I see myself as a woman. If trans men want to identify as women, that is fine by me - I will respect that choice. But I don't see why I need to be shuffled off into a subset - especially as the prefix 'sub' very clearly implies 'lesser' or 'beneath' to me. I do not wish to be defined as being beneath or less than trans women - that would be male privilege in action.

I do not believe I am superior to trans men, because I was born with XX chromosomes, and a fully functional set of female genitalia, internal and external. But I am not less, either.

Pansiesandredrosesandmarigolds · 28/04/2017 12:40

Er. Transwomen would be a subset of women too.

So....

Datun · 28/04/2017 12:42

NotCarylChurchill

Can you give me any definition of woman that includes transwomen?

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 28/04/2017 12:50

I haven't said that transwomen would have to be a subset of women, @Pansiesandredrosesandmarigolds. I am simply explaining why I object to the term cis being used to label me.

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