Just a thought

[YellowChicken]

feminism

the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes.

Just a thought and I can see me getting my butt handed to me but if feminism is about equality of sexes then should it not support both sexes?
I understand alot of issues in the world directly affect women but sometimes I fine feminism to be used as a big hate compain against men when really it should be bringing us all together and creating a fair and equal society.

Dont get me wrong im all for what feminism is but sometimes I feel that the idea of equality.

An example

I cant say all women do but alot objectify men on their appearance. I seem many people on here talk about "sexy" men in a derogatory way. A crush that makes their "fanny tingle" (yes iv read that) is no different to a guy saying a woman makes his cock hard.
A guy looking at a women body and making derogatory comments is no different from a female seeing a topless guys and making comments about his body.

However there are movements about how men should not look at a womans body and be aroused by it. That is just basic biology

Porn is another example people focus on the women in porn but there are just as many men in porn and alot of women watch porn. The idea that women in porn make unreachable expectations of how a woman should look and behave in the bedroom can be an issue with men in porn. Be it gay, tv or heterosexual.

Who is speaking up for them men?

The idea that women can only be sexually assaulted when I know many males who have been.
Who is sticking up for them men?

The pension age is lower for females, we have the choice of terminating a pregnancy regardless of how a male thinks or feels, we more often then not get full custody of children.

And thats just a few examples.

I often think the true meaning of equality is forgotten.

Right light me up

All of the issues affecting both sexes and you are spending the afternoon fighting for the right of men to spunk with abandon and leave their children without a backwards glance. Don't you feel a little bit ashamed? You should.

Ah so you want women to feel forced into abortion by the threat of poverty. Much nicer.

UK male suicide rate decreases whilst female suicide rate increases to its highest rate in a decade

From the ONS. Men keep murdering women and girls though, not that you care in the slightest.

More women die from what?

stitchglitched

People challenged the termination...would you like to discuss something else?

stitchglitched

No im saying women should think about their situation and the implications it could have on their child

Yes, women being murdered by men but you keep avoiding that topic as you seem more invested in men having a consequence free sex life.

While you're thinking about those 2 women a week killed by their male partner, yellowchicken, what do you think should happen if there is an "accidental" pregnancy and the man wants the baby and the woman doesn't?

Bah! All these nasty women forcing men to spunk inside them

stitchglitched

Seek help?if your in a shit relationship seek help?

Just like if your suicidal seek help

"ill force him to pay even tho he said he didnt want the child"

Actions have consequences, you say?

Don't want child, don't have sex with a fertile woman without protection.

Well you've changed my mind rightly and no mistake.

And what about the women and girls assaulted by men carrying out the violence against women they'd seen in pornography which you claim harms men more? Not to mention those murdered by them.

I'm sure women already do think about their situations when deciding to go ahead with a pregnancy or not. I don't know any single mothers who rely on maintenance, most don't get any and those who do view it as an added bonus. That is shameful as support should be able to be relied upon.

But it works both ways too. Do you not agree than men should also think about the implications before ejaculating into a woman?

There's a massive difference between seeking medical help for depression, and being in an abusive relationship.

Just a thought.

"Im not a woman because I dont agree?"

No you are not a woman because your posts make it clear that you have no idea what goes on in the lives of woman, especially regarding pregnancy and children.

If not a man, uou might be a young teenage girl, I suppose.

'Seek help.'

It's a bit hard to seek help when you're dead. And Shana Grice did ask for help. Look how far that got her.

You have a much lower opinion of men than I do Yellow.
Most of the men I know would be horrified at the idea of abandoning a child to poverty (and, btw, financial situations change all the time so it is not just a matter of a woman working out if she can afford a child. If she later loses her job, for eg, do you want the state to forcibly remove her child from her?) 12% of gross income is not a huge responsibility either. They would also be horrified at the idea of forcing a woman to undergo an abortion.

And yet feminists are supposed to be the ones who hate men!

In the USA its not 2 women a week, its 3 women a day murdered by their partners.

www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/how-to-stop-domestic-violence-murder_us_56eeb745e4b09bf44a9d85f6

Chrissie Chambers asked for help too, repeatedly before she and her 2 year old were murdered by her ex.

Katie Cullen asked for help too after her ex attacked her in the street. She was later murdered.

I could probably fill this thread with names of women who did 'seek help' and still ended up dead.

I like your thinking OVH, it's simple, logical and makes complete sense.

You can't steal sperm from a sperm bank and force a man to be a parent after all.

This is a total winner!