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Nordic Model on the Big Questions tomorrow

314 replies

LauraMipsum · 01/04/2017 20:43

The BBC's political equivalent of Jeremy Kyle is hosting "has the time come to decriminalise sex work" tomorrow morning.

I'm going to be in the audience; if anyone wants to support the Nordic model voice via twitter please do!

OP posts:

AssassinatedBeauty · 03/04/2017 12:53

You are living in your own little fantasy world to justify what you do. Your posts demonstrate that you have no empathy or ability to see women as full human beings. They are only there because you are paying them. It is not an equal partnership, it is not a friendship. You don't have to pay your friends to talk to you or to hang out with you for an hour.

You have nothing valid to add to the debate. You simply want continued access to women's bodies to use for your own gratification. You have no genuine desire to change or improve the situation of prostitutes as then you wouldn't be able to do what you want to do.

RufusTheRenegadeReindeer · 03/04/2017 12:57

You are not paying attention to anyone elses posts

Or commenting on their points

You are just talking about yourself, what you do and making stuff up

I think you may be boring those ladies senseless...

RufusTheRenegadeReindeer · 03/04/2017 12:59

sex workers have told me that I talk too much and that other guys are silent and just want to fuck

I think the above isnt a complment from the ladies concerned

Its a plea for help

GenderEqualityAdvocate · 03/04/2017 13:00

My own exclusive pleasure????

I have had this conversation with sex workers and asked them if they genuinely get off and they look at me with a sense of disbelief.

They told me that if guys come in doing certain things and rubbing them in certain ways then they are not robots and will orgasm and enjoy the sex. That is some women. Some actually enjoy the work, they like multiple sex partners and could never settle down with one man. They are similarly as fixated with sex.

venusinscorpio · 03/04/2017 13:00

It does sound like it, Rufus.

scallopsrgreat · 03/04/2017 13:12

I have had this conversation with sex workers and asked them if they genuinely get off and they look at me with a sense of disbelief. Of course they do. You are paying them to have that reaction. It is an unequal conversation.

Beachcomber is right. Only a narcissist could believe this shit.

AssassinatedBeauty · 03/04/2017 13:21

The point, GEA, is that you're only interested in what you want. If the woman you're using happens to enjoy it too then as far as you're concerned that's by-the-by. You would use a prostitute whether or not she finds it enjoyable.

If you asked, and a woman was able to say to you (without fear or worry of the consequences), that actually what she'd find enjoyable would be for you not to have sex and for you to leave immediately, would you still pay her and do as she asks?

MercyMyJewels · 03/04/2017 13:26

Please stop engaging with the arsehole. He's clearly getting off on it

And yes, I would be only too delighted to see you in arrested and charged. Bring it on

venusinscorpio · 03/04/2017 13:30

Yes, I agree Mercy. Perhaps his card got declined.

GenderEqualityAdvocate · 03/04/2017 13:35

You know that scenario comes up. Women who you have seen before will politely turn you down when you phone them up again.

You respect their choice and move on. It has happened with one woman I had seen on 4-5 occassions and shared endless messages with. There comes a point where they want to cut you off and you just respect that.

weeonion · 03/04/2017 15:52

Go to www.insideoutsidescotland.info and read the voices of women currently in exited from the sex industry. They have no agenda or business model to defend. They want punters held responsible for the harm they cause.

VestalVirgin · 03/04/2017 16:25

You don't have to pay your friends to talk to you or to hang out with you for an hour.

Oh, I wouldn't be so sure.

He's very annoying, so might not have any real friends, and there's this agency in Japan where you can hire a fake friend ... but I think they are only there for photos, not talking or activities.

Datun · 03/04/2017 17:14

I've just read this thread with a sort of disbelieving, ghastly fascination.

The level of self delusion and self deceit is shocking. I almost feel like I've a dissected a frog

From the name GenderEqualityAdvocate, to the desperate justification using faux concern for the women, to the utter misconception that transactional sex is mitigated by the goal of giving a (completely imaginery) orgasm, to the fond fantasy that any and all reactions of these women is not expressly dictated by the understanding of payment and/or repeat business (except in those cases where they have turned you down for having the bloody brass neck to bore them to death before you ask for a fuck).

Mate, keep your sex addiction to yourself and get off a feminist forum. Ask your doctor for help as soon as you can.

Datun · 03/04/2017 17:22

By the way Dervel, I thought it was really, really nice of you to offer to help him.

QuentinSummers · 03/04/2017 17:48

Dervel is lovely, I have a crush. (I actually have a crush on all the FWR regulars, luffs you all )

CharlieSierra · 03/04/2017 18:04

Why doesn't trolling FWR break talk guidelines?

QuentinSummers · 03/04/2017 18:13

I think it does if they get enough reports.

CharlieSierra · 03/04/2017 18:15

Maybe it's only me then.

QuentinSummers · 03/04/2017 18:24

It's hard with this thread because I'm not sure being a skanky narcissistic woman hating wanksock is against talk guidelines.

RufusTheRenegadeReindeer · 03/04/2017 18:36

But it should be quentin it should be

QuentinSummers · 03/04/2017 18:49

I'm going to report my post and ask them

Datun · 03/04/2017 18:50

I think it should stay. Many women lurk on here and don't post. I think it's very useful to illustrate exactly why feminists are feminists.

QuentinSummers · 03/04/2017 18:55

Yeah you are right datun. I just feel like I need a good wash. Horrible to be reminded that to some men women are nothing more than sperm receptacles uuuuuuuugggggh

CharlieSierra · 03/04/2017 19:21

I agree about feeling like I need a good wash. I've seen some goady fuckers and MRAs on here before but this vile specimen has truly taken the . Utterly repulsive. I reported this morning so clearly HQ think it's fine.

Datun · 03/04/2017 19:45

And, according to him, he is one of the 'good punters', which I think he has amply demonstrated is a complete contradiction in terms.

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