DH is 'glad' of verdict

[HexBramble]

I'm sickened tbh.
He announced this morning that he is happy and glad that justice has been served and will not listen to reason.
We have 3 daughters.

My god. There are no words.

Hex I'm really sorry you have such idiotic views being spouted on your thread that you posted for support. Please don't take any of zefcal's victim blaming nonsense to heart. He/she clearly has no idea.

I am baffled by those who don't understand how the law works. If a woman is kidnapped and then raped, the rapist doesn't 'just' get charged with rape, it will be abduction, detained against will, rape.

Trying to work out 'degrees' of severity is pointless and victim blaming. Rape is rape. Offences committed in conjunction will still be charged.

Goady fucking posters.

Hex

Zefcal you are the lowest form of arsehole fucker I have ever encountered on mumsnet. Fuck off to the far side of fuck then fuck off some more you complete steaming pile of turd.

Zef, a hundred fucking posters have told you that is NOT what is going on here, you mean spirited dimbo.

Mumsnet never made anyone leave their cunt of a husband.

Seriously you are way out of line zefcal. You are wrong, you are offensive and you are seriously upsetting people here. Please can you take your hateful misogyny elsewhere?

What makes you think I want to engage in rational argument with an arsewipe who does not get the simple fact that the only person who gets to judge how bad her experience of rape was is the victim?

I don't bother with rational argument for people who have demonstrated by their views that they are completely without empathy, compassion, understanding or common decency.

I think you're a syphillitic prick - that good enough for you?

You can label what I said anything you want but it doesn't make what I said incorrect.

Actually yes it does, but I don't expect people like you to understand.

Off you fuck.

Oh what a surprise, zefcal is new today and has only posted in feminism.

Clearly a very passionate feminist.

Oh and she (and anyone) can choose to leave their partner because they watch eastenders if they want. No one is obliged to stay with anyone, regardless how 'petty' you might find the reason.

Zefcal, many many people are better off when they leave partners but I'm guessing that view won't sit well with you.

I note you said earlier about how most men will see this - sadly I agree but to me that's a damn good reason to keep such men out of my life. To find out you're married to one must be a shock and definitely worth leaving for.

zefcal are you the DH? :)

I'm sure Het's DH isn't that much of an atrocious cunt - she did marry him!

The beauty of posting on an online forum is that you can either choose to take or leave the advice given to you.

Just because a few posters have suggested leaving her DH, doesn't mean she should/will. If she does leave her DH it will be entirely her choice. No one can make someone leave their partner.

The only poster who should be ashamed of themselves if you zefcal.

That had occurred to me too, deydodo (btw, I'm Het, OP is Hex, just for the avoidance of confusion).

Shall we try the virtual "hide poster" button and see if we can ignore the troll into going away?

Zefcal I don't think hex will come back to her thread whilst you're here spouting your goady hateful rape apologist crap.

As this is a support thread please could you just fuck off as you're not here to support in anyway? I know you like silencing women and victims but lots of us have asked you to just leave.

Hopefully MNHQ will ban them ASAP if not. Hex please ignore, I'm so sorry they have fucked your thread. The rest of us are still here to support you.

'deemed too drunk to have consented even if she actually went home with him of her own will and uses her body to demonstrate that she wanted sex"

Is that what we were talking about? I suggest you look into the case in question.
But anyhow, debate doesn't go here and I'm sure you'll be banned before we can converse elsewhere. Shame.

I maintain that Mumsnet never made anyone leave their cunt of a husband.

zefcal is on a number of threads esposing some interesting views

I would try and ignore