Can I point out Ella that I think it was you, yes? Who said that experiences should not be used on debates or something to that effect? Could we not also say that if you feel emotional about rape then you are more likely to take something as a personal attack or at least personally, when it was unintended to be so?
I may be clumsy in my interpretation and explanations, but I have never intended to hurt or upset as I have said time and time and time again over and over on this thread. We all have opinions and those opinions will not be the same. I have also been hurt and upset by things that have been said on this thread and I didn't get an apology for those things so I had to let them go in the end.
If you want to keep re-hashing extracts of what I said in order to justify attacks on my character, if you want to tell people of how nasty I was and not tell them about the apologies or that I was certainly not intending to cause harm or upset (but instead imply that this is exactly what I was doing) then I cannot stop you, freedom of speech and all that you see.
But you are wrong in what you think of me. That is all.